Pierre & Maggie: The untold story

New revelations about the most fascinating marriage in Canadian history

by John Geddes on Monday, October 26, 2009 10:56am - 34 Comments

Pierre & Maggie: the untold storyThere’s something dark, almost to the point of the occult, in the way Pierre Trudeau is often remembered. Scan across the shelf of books about him: titles refer to his “shadow,” the notion he remains “hidden,” and one even calls him a “magus.” The most famous biographical quote about him claims “he haunts us still.”

Perhaps it’s all this gloom that makes the story of his courtship and marriage such welcome leavening in the tale. The dancing entrance of Margaret Sinclair, quintessential flower child, brings to the story a tie-dyed splash of contrast, occasionally sheer silliness—not to mention doomed romance, rare beauty and rock-star celebrity. No wage and price controls or constitutional amendments in this chapter.

Yet the famous Maggie and Pierre saga is more than a mere diversion from the main current of the Trudeau narrative. This exclusive excerpt from Just Watch Me: The Life of Pierre Elliott Trudeau, 1968-2000, the second volume of John English’s authoritative biography of Canada’s 15th prime minister, fits their love story into tumultuous political times. The University of Waterloo history professor had exclusive access to Trudeau’s papers, and interviewed his family members and friends, some of whose privacy he protects by quoting them anonymously.

He shows Trudeau’s private and public sides intersecting poignantly when he is drawn closer to Margaret by their being together on the night Pierre Laporte, the Quebec labour minister, is murdered by his FLQ kidnappers. Yet it would be a mistake to try to integrate Margaret too tightly into Trudeau’s political life. He certainly didn’t.

In fact, English says if he had to pick one aspect of Trudeau’s character that struck him repeatedly in his research, it was the way he kept the different parts of his life from intermingling. “I was surprised how compartmentalized he was. It allowed him to be a very disciplined person as prime minister,” English said. “People who were very close to him on something fundamental were totally closed off from other parts of his life.”

For instance, Jim Coutts, enormously influential as Trudeau’s principal secretary from 1975 to 1981, never considered himself a friend of his boss. Marc Lalonde, who also served as principal secretary and then emerged as a powerful cabinet minister, was never invited to Trudeau’s house for dinner. But then, they were men. “Trudeau seemed to pour his heart out with women,” English says. “With men, he always had his elbows up.”

Just Watch Me reveals how Trudeau’s private circle saw his public persona. In early 1969, he erupted several times in short order, railing against the media at a news conference, storming out of a meeting, and swearing at a protester. The public saw a mercurial leader. An old flame from the 1940s, Thérèse Gouin Décarie, saw an unhappy friend. “Pierre, our Pierre,” she wrote in a note English found in his papers, “what has happened to you?”

He was famously disciplined about everything, from keeping fit to exercising his mind. If he behaved erratically, Trudeau instantly regretted it. But he was consistently attracted to women who were impulsive. He liked the excitement of dating outspoken celebrities like Barbra Streisand and Margot Kidder. More involved was his relationship with Carroll Guérin, whom he’d first dated in the late 1950s. She’s described by English as “strikingly beautiful, Catholic, liberal, fluently trilingual, independently wealthy, and knowledgeable about the arts,” and, perhaps most importantly, “not in awe of Trudeau.” Remarkably, Trudeau consulted Guérin, to whom he had repeatedly proposed, about marrying Margaret.

In hindsight, the pairing of the 52-year-old prime minister with a 22-year-old hippie looks bound to fail from the start. To his detractors, the folly fits with their view of Trudeau as a less than serious figure. Indeed, by the time he took his walk in the snow in 1984, it was easy enough to see him—except on the Constitution and national unity—as increasingly irrelevant. After all, Margaret Thatcher and Ronald Reagan had ushered in a new faith in free markets and deregulation. But English finds Trudeau throwing himself into a 1981 bid to persuade the rich North that its economic priority should be doing much more to help the poor South. His skepticism about the anti-government-intervention vogue in economics looked retrograde.

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  • http://intensedebate.com/people/craigola craigola

    I feel K. Beaton should be given the first word on the topic.

    http://www.harkavagrant.com/index.php?id=159

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/Gaunilon Gaunilon

    Whenever I read about Trudeau's life I am struck by how sad it is.

    Such potential for greatness and happiness, yet gone awry so badly. It is one of the most tragic stories in Canadian history.

    • kcm

      No more tragic then anyone elses. He had a loving family, kids and a measure of success. Hardly tragic .

    • MJ Patchouli

      How, where, when gone awry? A family that loved him, a nation that adored him both for his brains and for being a maverick; many beautiful and intelligent women in his life, then marriage to a sweet young beauty, who bore him three gorgeous sons who he adored. He remained fit and vital, fathering a child in his senior years. He goes down in history as one of our greatest statemen EVER.

      He did suffer loss, hard hard loss, but as a philosopher king, he would know that all lives have sadness. I think he had a great life. There's nothing wrong with being a lone wolf kind of person — often, they are the ones who are best at satisfying their own needs.

    • RagingRanter

      I believe that is a total exaggeration. He definitely suffered personal tragedy when his son died in 1998. Other than that, a rather nasty divorce and public divorce with someone who was on a rapid descent into bi-polar chaos. Not fun, but certainly nothing others haven't gone through. One of the most tragic stories in Canadian history??? Not even close.

  • Maureen

    Who the frickin' cares?

    • kcm

      You do…or why are you here?

    • MJ Patchouli

      Clearly YOU cared enough to read the article, then post a comment.

      • Maureen

        I skimmed the article to see if there was any thing of substance – there wasn't – just more claptrap about the wonders of Pierre. My posting is a statement and conclusion – again who frickin' cares?

        • MJ Patchouli

          Here you are, back again! Any substance yet?

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/frenchie101 frenchie101

      I was about to say the same thing PET was an awful man, who's wife was a bit of slut. So far back, and if he were to run today, he wouldnt get in.

      • Anon Lib

        "…who's wife was a bit of a slut."
        ——————————————–

        Charming

      • MJ Patchouli

        frenchie, you should be in english 101, because you have no idea what to do with an apostrophe.

        • http://intensedebate.com/people/Nich Nich

          Well if the administrator had to delete his comment, I suspect I know what he could do with that apostrophe.

  • kcm

    English's first volume was an interesting if somewhat long read.
    I found N. Southam's Pierre more interesting. Yes it's a little fawning at times, but if you skip to the personal essays it becomes engaging. Trudeau's lifelong spiritual quest and religious convictions as well as quirks and foibles are the best part of her book.

  • http://coyne kc

    ‘A week before the wedding, Margaret went to her shy priest Father Schwinkles, told him she was ready for conversion, and confessed quite a few sins, including the fact that she’d lied about the identity of the man she was dating. It was not “Pierre Mercier” but Pierre Trudeau. The priest gasped, then hurriedly commanded: “Go down on your knees and say the Lord’s Prayer. Do three Hail Marys for your sins”

    lol One’s lead to wonder just what sins the priest is most perturbed about. Her’s or her husband’s to be?

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/Jack_Mitchell Jack Mitchell

      "Father Schwinkles" must be a pseudonym.

      • MJ Patchouli

        Snort! It's what he liked the altar boys to call him…

        I visited your site because you make me laugh. Guess what? I also am from Sackville New Brunswick, although our family moved from there shortly before your birth…

        Still say it's a great town to grow up in…

        • http://intensedebate.com/people/Jack_Mitchell Jack Mitchell

          I can imagine! I was actually whisked away at the tender age of one, but I go back whenever I can; I actually composed the first draft of my epic poem at the Bridge Street Café there. Idyllic!

      • kcm

        lol Doesn't it cary conviction? It's too bizarre not to be true.

  • Bill Simpson

    When a 52 old man marries a 22 year old woman, it is impossible to avoid the conclusion that both are revealing some deep character flaws in so doing.

    I was watching the "Trudeaus" the other night on CBC; "King Pierre, desperate for an heir to his throne of "The Coolest Person in Canada", takes a beautiful young princess from British Columbia as his third wife (he was previously married to his mother and himself). Out of their tempestuous relationship…blah..blah".

    • kcm

      It's true that the CBC has made a ridiculous fetish out of the Trudeau saga, ironically that Trudeau would have despised that. But your moral judgements are pretty juvenile,

      • Bill Simpson

        Not really a moral judgment. Margaret Trudeau, by own admission, suffered from bipolar disorder, and was widely known for her extreme behavior. Their marriage and divorce were a mess, and Pierre Trudeau likely made as much a contribution to this as Margaret. The marriage was a monumental misjudgment on both sides.

        • kcm

          Hindsight's 20/20.

  • Bruce Breneol

    I hope when I'm 52 I can find a beautiful 22 year old woman to marry me.

    • confused

      Where do you think you will find a 22 year old woman with a wrinkle fetish?

  • MJ Patchouli

    Look at that photo of them though — that's chemistry!

    • kcm

      One thing's inescapable from any close reading of Trudeau's relationships- his his constancy. He may arguably have not been an ideal husband but he managed remain close friends to all his women for his whole life – including Maggie.

  • Jeet

    No wonder the Americans are far better versed on Australia if this is the best crap we can come up with as an example of colourful Canuckistani history. Take your cult and shove it.

  • Diver

    What a waste of paper and ink! Who gives a sh-t about Pierre and Maggie at this stage. None of it is important.

  • D. Matthews.

    I can relate. Great story.

  • Louise M

    I found this fun to read; perhaps I will buy the book. I suppose I enjoyed it because I was 14 when Trudeaumania hit in '68 and I went to a Trudeau rally in my riding carrying an NDP "Charles Taylor" placard, which I dumped after the speeches in order to run after Trudeau as he left the rally. I got a close up view of him smiling through the limousine window as the car pulled away! Oh, such nostalgia!

    Sad that Canada in the present does not have a politician to excite the youth as Trudeau did and spark a life long interest and caring about politics… I only hope that Obama south of the border will not lose his youth following now that the initial election and inaugurial excitement has died down.

    But in bringing Obama into this Trudeau reflection, I just wish to express that the two totally stand apart from most politicians in my opinion, because they are first and foremost, men of principle. We need more leaders like them…

  • Marushka

    It was a brilliant combination of young/old, east/west, french/english, Catholic/Protestant, logical/emotional people. A perfect combination to please/unite our country. I always assumed it was thoughtfully and purposefully planned out by Trudeau, and star-struck, immature Maggie was sucked in by his charm & charisma. And Canadian politics became interesting for the first time in history.

  • fuddle duddle

    women are attacted to power and status while men are attracted to youth and beauty right…in a more extreme case there is hugh heffner who has to be 80something dating women in their twenties…ewww

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