The truth about priests

It is hard to believe, but not every Catholic priest is a pedophile

by Michael Friscolanti on Tuesday, December 1, 2009 9:45am - 79 Comments

Even to the eyes of a seasoned child pornography investigator, the photographs are horrific. One image depicts a young boy, no older than 12, standing on a wooden deck, a pair of white underwear pulled down around his knees. In the next shot, a different naked boy is sitting in an office chair, with two holy rosaries—one white, one black—dangling from his skinny neck. It’s impossible to know for sure, but detectives believe the anonymous boy could be as young as nine years old.

In yet another photo—one of 964 discovered on Bishop Raymond Lahey’s laptop—a male teenager is posing in front of a bookcase. “He is blond and looks hurt as there are red welts and marks on his stomach and chest area,” according to a police statement filed in court. “He looks sad in this image.”

Sadness does not even begin to describe such a betrayal. In August, the same Bishop Lahey proudly announced a historic, out-of-court settlement worth millions of dollars for victims who were sexually assaulted by Catholic priests in his diocese of Antigonish, N.S. Then, just weeks after the press release, he was flagged by border guards following a flight from England to Ottawa, and—after a peak inside his Toshiba—charged with possessing and importing child pornography.

Like everyone, Lahey is entitled to his day in court (his next appearance is Dec. 16). As he told police during his first interrogation, he has “never done anything that would be abusive with a child” and has “no time for child exploitation.” His downloads, however, tell a much more sinister story: when the good bishop wasn’t negotiating with victims of sexual abuse, he was in his rectory, staring at graphic images of the very same crime.

Though shocking, Lahey’s arrest was not exactly surprising. Sadly, he is just the latest in a long, infamous line of Catholic clergymen accused of preying on innocent children (or in his case, watching from afar as others prey on innocent children). The headlines have been repeated so many times over so many years that it’s difficult to look at any man in a Roman collar and not assume the worst. Of course Bishop Lahey had kiddie porn on his computer. All priests are pedophiles.

In pop culture, at least, that presumption is now gospel truth. Doubt, last year’s Oscar-winning movie, centres on a priest suspected of sexually abusing a student. The latest Scotia­bank Giller Prize was awarded to Linden MacIntyre’s The Bishop’s Man, a novel that tells the story of a guilt-ridden East Coast cleric whose job is to clean up—and cover up—any whiff of scandal in the diocese. And if a priest shows up in an episode of Law & Order, odds are he is attracted to nine-year-old boys. “I’ve seen TV shows where the surprise ending is that the priest is not the pedophile,” says Philip Jenkins, a professor at Penn State University and author of Pedophiles and Priests: Anatomy of a Contemporary Crisis.

The media is not to blame for the allegations against Bishop Lahey—or the sins of any other priest who uses his spiritual authority to violate a child. If parishioners assume the man saying mass is a molester, it’s because thousands of priests actually were molesters. Law & Order did not invent the stereotype, and neither did newspapers. Priests did.
But at the risk of downplaying decades of unspeakable abuse—or forgiving a Church hierarchy that moved heaven and earth to suppress scandal and protect criminal clergy—an obvious point is often ignored: the vast, vast majority of Catholic priests are not sexual predators. In fact, the scientific research suggests that men who target children are no more pervasive in the priesthood (and perhaps less pervasive) than in any other segment of society. Depending on the study, somewhere between two and four per cent of priests have had sexual contact with a minor. Or, to put it another way, between 96 and 98 per cent have not.

“It’s part of that myth—the myth of the pedophile priest who can’t help himself,” says Thomas Plante, a psychology professor at Santa Clara University who has published dozens of studies about sexually abusive priests. “It’s really an issue of perception rather than reality. Believe it or not, probably the safest place for a kid to be is in a Catholic church environment.”

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  • Mr.Bold

    Most of the church goers I talk/argue about this subject seem to brush it off, saying there was a few bad people. Their mighty leaders keep brain washing them and they continue to go every Sunday if not more often to give money to pay for over TWO BILLION dollars of pedophile lawsuits. That money could have helped a lot of people. The surface is just scratched, think of the people that have past on who can't tell their story, who don't get no closure etc etc etc. How can anyone with all the information at hand still be sucked in to attending church(Catholic anyways) when the leaders of the whole organization knew about the worlds most EVIL coverup. I get very frustrated talking to religious people who hide all the facts and try to quote excerpts from the bible as fact. you have no facts, your so called book has been re-written thousands of times and many different languages. Contrary to what the religious people I have run across, you can still be a good person and not attend church. Some of you may not like my view, sorry, but too many people sugar coat this stuff. I could sit here for hours, must go one of my little ones is up. Go Bill Maher Go!!

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  • John Quinn

    I have not read all the comments and I probably will not read them. All I want to say is that I am now 76 years of age, born in Ottawa , On, was educated mostly in Ottawa and Toronto. I have recently retired from the practice of Law. In regard to priests I can only speak for the Priests that were mostly in Ottawa. They were all wonderful, contributed to my education in a masterful way and I am grateful for their assistance and care over my life. Life would have been immeasurably much more difficult without their wise assistance. Thank you, both the Priests and the Nuns for devoting your life to out well being.. John Quinn

  • Gary

    Arguing that the percentage of priests that abuse is not higher than the general population misses the point. They are in a position of trust and invariably do more serious damage. One abusing priest is too much. However of the thousands caught how many more go unreported because of fear and cover ups. The abuse is systemic and wide spread. All of our children need to live in a safe environment, free of the threat of molestation. If the R C church cannot clean up their act shut them down.

  • TedTylerEzro

    I think that's true to some extent (as I opined in my own post) but I think there is also more to it than that.

    If you truly wanted to be alone to purge your pedophile thoughts, it is much easier to do in monastery than in the secular priesthood or a religious order dealing with the formation of youth (such as the Christian Brothers). Largely then, you needed to seek out positions to put you in a position of trust, power, and opportunity. Though most of the priests charged were charged for only a single offense, you also had repeat offenders who were caught, squirmed and begged forgiveness, sent to pseudo-scientists known as psychoanalysts, and then cynically abused again.

  • bonzo

    This is interesting, suggesting the issue may be a crisis of maladjusted sexuality in a particular ethnic group — or the poor quality of seminary training and preparation in the structures in Irish and Celtic settings.

  • TedTylerEzro

    That is what the evidence seems to suggest. If I was to go with my gut, I would say that it is more the fault of the latter (improper selection of recruits and corruption in Irish seminary formation) instead of the former (sexual crisis in Irish society as a whole).

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    Test. Please ignore.

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/why_knot1 why_knot1

    “If it were flipped around—if 80 per cent of the victims were girls—we would never say: ‘Get rid of all the heterosexual priests, and the problem goes away.’

    No, we would outlaw the Catholic Church.

    Seriously, it would be considered a variation of NAMBLA and would be not be allowed to operate with a charitable status, receive public funding or be accepted as a revered organization by the public or by government! As they well should.

  • Irish

    Very limited numbers on which to base a general conclusion TedTylerEzro . Do some proper research instead of speculating.

  • TedTylerEzro

    Oh, I agree, there needs to be proper research.

  • Samantha

    "(1 Timothy 4:1-3)  ….. some will fall away from the faith, paying attention to misleading inspired utterances and teachings of demons, 2 by the hypocrisy of men who speak lies, marked in their conscience as with a branding iron; 3 forbidding to marry…."

    The bible doesn't forbit anyone to marry…rather it is something made up by the Church and is not a scriptural teaching. …but then again, we're not suppose to call anyone on earth our "father" (spirtually speaking), but they ignore that command as well and set themselves up over their parishiners. Something else not scriptually based.

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