The truth about priests

It is hard to believe, but not every Catholic priest is a pedophile

by Michael Friscolanti on Tuesday, December 1, 2009 9:45am - 79 Comments

Today, priests undergo safe-environment training, and are taught never to be alone with a child. Every diocese has a lay committee that examines new allegations of sexual abuse. If a victim comes forward, he is immediately offered counselling and support. And if the complainant is under 18, police are automatically called (adults reporting historic abuse are given the option to alert authorities; some victims prefer not to). “There used to be a lack of understanding about sexual abuse,” says Winnipeg Archbishop James Weisberger, speaking on behalf of the Canadian Conference of Catholic Bishops. “We tended to see it like alcoholism, that it was a moral problem and completely within the power of the individual to change. So normally, when people were discovered doing things like this, they were called in and given a royal dressing-down, hoping that they would be scared out of that kind of behaviour.”

And if that didn’t work, they would be transferred to a new community, free to exploit another batch of unsuspecting children. “That is not the way we deal with things today,” Weisberger says.

For many victims, the Church’s epiphany smacks of damage control, not genuine change. While bishops talk about care and compassion, their attorneys are busy fighting lawsuits at every turn. And unlike their American counterparts, Canada’s bishops still have no idea how far-reaching the problem is on this side of the border. Is the prevalence rate lower than four per cent? Or higher? In the U.S., each diocese is also subject to an annual public audit, detailing exactly how many new allegations are levelled in a given year. In Canada, we only hear about a case if it lands in court. The public has no idea how many accusations have been covered up with hush money, or how many victims have been scared into silence.

When asked about specific Canadian statistics, Weisberger says such a study would be expensive (the John Jay analysis cost US$4 million) and that kind of money would be better spent on safe-environment training and counselling. “I can see why people could be concerned about this,” he says. “But the bishops have decided in Canada that they don’t want to approach it that way.”

But why, after so much sin and deceit, should people now trust the Church to do the right thing? “Simply by the way we are dealing with things,” Weisberger answers. “I don’t know how else you can prove it.”

Philip Latimer has a different strategy. Now 47, he was an altar boy at St. Paul’s Church in Havre Boucher, N.S., when he was raped for the first time by Father Allan A. MacDonald. “My life was forever changed,” Latimer says, holding back tears. “I can only describe it to you this way: he reached into my soul, tore out everything in me that was good—mentally, physically and emotionally—and ran me through a blender.”

Latimer would have qualified for financial damages under the settlement signed by Lahey, but when he heard about the announcement he decided not to bother with the paperwork. Latimer had spent his life trying to forget Father MacDonald, and he wanted to keep it that way. But in late September, when word spread that Lahey was caught with child pornography, something snapped. “I couldn’t help but focus on this fact,” he says. “I kept thinking: ‘what am I going to do? What can I do? What should I do?’ ”

What he did was opt out of the class-action settlement and file a lawsuit of his own. If Lahey—the man supposedly looking out for victims—was victimizing others, what else is going on behind rectory doors? “The more and more people who commit this crime, the better and better they are at trying to hide this crime,” Latimer says. “Their plan is never to admit anything that they knew, and so my plan is to reveal everything that they knew.” Beyond the statistics.

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  • Mr.Bold

    Most of the church goers I talk/argue about this subject seem to brush it off, saying there was a few bad people. Their mighty leaders keep brain washing them and they continue to go every Sunday if not more often to give money to pay for over TWO BILLION dollars of pedophile lawsuits. That money could have helped a lot of people. The surface is just scratched, think of the people that have past on who can't tell their story, who don't get no closure etc etc etc. How can anyone with all the information at hand still be sucked in to attending church(Catholic anyways) when the leaders of the whole organization knew about the worlds most EVIL coverup. I get very frustrated talking to religious people who hide all the facts and try to quote excerpts from the bible as fact. you have no facts, your so called book has been re-written thousands of times and many different languages. Contrary to what the religious people I have run across, you can still be a good person and not attend church. Some of you may not like my view, sorry, but too many people sugar coat this stuff. I could sit here for hours, must go one of my little ones is up. Go Bill Maher Go!!

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  • John Quinn

    I have not read all the comments and I probably will not read them. All I want to say is that I am now 76 years of age, born in Ottawa , On, was educated mostly in Ottawa and Toronto. I have recently retired from the practice of Law. In regard to priests I can only speak for the Priests that were mostly in Ottawa. They were all wonderful, contributed to my education in a masterful way and I am grateful for their assistance and care over my life. Life would have been immeasurably much more difficult without their wise assistance. Thank you, both the Priests and the Nuns for devoting your life to out well being.. John Quinn

  • Gary

    Arguing that the percentage of priests that abuse is not higher than the general population misses the point. They are in a position of trust and invariably do more serious damage. One abusing priest is too much. However of the thousands caught how many more go unreported because of fear and cover ups. The abuse is systemic and wide spread. All of our children need to live in a safe environment, free of the threat of molestation. If the R C church cannot clean up their act shut them down.

  • TedTylerEzro

    I think that's true to some extent (as I opined in my own post) but I think there is also more to it than that.

    If you truly wanted to be alone to purge your pedophile thoughts, it is much easier to do in monastery than in the secular priesthood or a religious order dealing with the formation of youth (such as the Christian Brothers). Largely then, you needed to seek out positions to put you in a position of trust, power, and opportunity. Though most of the priests charged were charged for only a single offense, you also had repeat offenders who were caught, squirmed and begged forgiveness, sent to pseudo-scientists known as psychoanalysts, and then cynically abused again.

  • bonzo

    This is interesting, suggesting the issue may be a crisis of maladjusted sexuality in a particular ethnic group — or the poor quality of seminary training and preparation in the structures in Irish and Celtic settings.

  • TedTylerEzro

    That is what the evidence seems to suggest. If I was to go with my gut, I would say that it is more the fault of the latter (improper selection of recruits and corruption in Irish seminary formation) instead of the former (sexual crisis in Irish society as a whole).

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  • http://intensedebate.com/people/why_knot1 why_knot1

    “If it were flipped around—if 80 per cent of the victims were girls—we would never say: ‘Get rid of all the heterosexual priests, and the problem goes away.’

    No, we would outlaw the Catholic Church.

    Seriously, it would be considered a variation of NAMBLA and would be not be allowed to operate with a charitable status, receive public funding or be accepted as a revered organization by the public or by government! As they well should.

  • Irish

    Very limited numbers on which to base a general conclusion TedTylerEzro . Do some proper research instead of speculating.

  • TedTylerEzro

    Oh, I agree, there needs to be proper research.

  • Samantha

    "(1 Timothy 4:1-3)  ….. some will fall away from the faith, paying attention to misleading inspired utterances and teachings of demons, 2 by the hypocrisy of men who speak lies, marked in their conscience as with a branding iron; 3 forbidding to marry…."

    The bible doesn't forbit anyone to marry…rather it is something made up by the Church and is not a scriptural teaching. …but then again, we're not suppose to call anyone on earth our "father" (spirtually speaking), but they ignore that command as well and set themselves up over their parishiners. Something else not scriptually based.

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