The truth about priests

It is hard to believe, but not every Catholic priest is a pedophile

by Michael Friscolanti on Tuesday, December 1, 2009 9:45am - 79 Comments

Even to the eyes of a seasoned child pornography investigator, the photographs are horrific. One image depicts a young boy, no older than 12, standing on a wooden deck, a pair of white underwear pulled down around his knees. In the next shot, a different naked boy is sitting in an office chair, with two holy rosaries—one white, one black—dangling from his skinny neck. It’s impossible to know for sure, but detectives believe the anonymous boy could be as young as nine years old.

In yet another photo—one of 964 discovered on Bishop Raymond Lahey’s laptop—a male teenager is posing in front of a bookcase. “He is blond and looks hurt as there are red welts and marks on his stomach and chest area,” according to a police statement filed in court. “He looks sad in this image.”

Sadness does not even begin to describe such a betrayal. In August, the same Bishop Lahey proudly announced a historic, out-of-court settlement worth millions of dollars for victims who were sexually assaulted by Catholic priests in his diocese of Antigonish, N.S. Then, just weeks after the press release, he was flagged by border guards following a flight from England to Ottawa, and—after a peak inside his Toshiba—charged with possessing and importing child pornography.

Like everyone, Lahey is entitled to his day in court (his next appearance is Dec. 16). As he told police during his first interrogation, he has “never done anything that would be abusive with a child” and has “no time for child exploitation.” His downloads, however, tell a much more sinister story: when the good bishop wasn’t negotiating with victims of sexual abuse, he was in his rectory, staring at graphic images of the very same crime.

Though shocking, Lahey’s arrest was not exactly surprising. Sadly, he is just the latest in a long, infamous line of Catholic clergymen accused of preying on innocent children (or in his case, watching from afar as others prey on innocent children). The headlines have been repeated so many times over so many years that it’s difficult to look at any man in a Roman collar and not assume the worst. Of course Bishop Lahey had kiddie porn on his computer. All priests are pedophiles.

In pop culture, at least, that presumption is now gospel truth. Doubt, last year’s Oscar-winning movie, centres on a priest suspected of sexually abusing a student. The latest Scotia­bank Giller Prize was awarded to Linden MacIntyre’s The Bishop’s Man, a novel that tells the story of a guilt-ridden East Coast cleric whose job is to clean up—and cover up—any whiff of scandal in the diocese. And if a priest shows up in an episode of Law & Order, odds are he is attracted to nine-year-old boys. “I’ve seen TV shows where the surprise ending is that the priest is not the pedophile,” says Philip Jenkins, a professor at Penn State University and author of Pedophiles and Priests: Anatomy of a Contemporary Crisis.

The media is not to blame for the allegations against Bishop Lahey—or the sins of any other priest who uses his spiritual authority to violate a child. If parishioners assume the man saying mass is a molester, it’s because thousands of priests actually were molesters. Law & Order did not invent the stereotype, and neither did newspapers. Priests did.
But at the risk of downplaying decades of unspeakable abuse—or forgiving a Church hierarchy that moved heaven and earth to suppress scandal and protect criminal clergy—an obvious point is often ignored: the vast, vast majority of Catholic priests are not sexual predators. In fact, the scientific research suggests that men who target children are no more pervasive in the priesthood (and perhaps less pervasive) than in any other segment of society. Depending on the study, somewhere between two and four per cent of priests have had sexual contact with a minor. Or, to put it another way, between 96 and 98 per cent have not.

“It’s part of that myth—the myth of the pedophile priest who can’t help himself,” says Thomas Plante, a psychology professor at Santa Clara University who has published dozens of studies about sexually abusive priests. “It’s really an issue of perception rather than reality. Believe it or not, probably the safest place for a kid to be is in a Catholic church environment.”

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  • TedTylerEzro

    Yeah, I like Diogenes too.

  • TedTylerEzro

    I'm not sure if there was someone "higher up" that knew (he was a bishop after all) but certainly someone lower down the chain must have known. Which is a worrying problem in and of itself.

    Of course, since Bishop Lahey is also linked to Mount Cashel, we should probably expect that someone higher up knew about him when he wasn't so high up, which is also a huge worry.

  • TedTylerEzro

    Actually, I think the churches are largely empty for another reason that is also Bishop Lahey's fault. Bishop Lahey oversaw the creation of the Catholic Book of Worship III hymnal book that tortures us every Sunday!

    Pedophiles really do ruin everything.

    • shaz_46

      We have to remember that no one individual comprises the Catholic Church. The church is the people. We go to church on our own accord. We go to worship the Lord and nobody else !! We have to remember that our parents generation placed priests and clergy ona pedestal almost as if they were superhuman.. I don"t !! Again at the end of the day it is not between me and a priest opr a bishop .. it is between me and God!! owever, the sick people(priests and bishops) have to be rooted out!! and given help!!

  • bonzo

    When over half of priests are found to have psycho-sexual problems (as in the US study), the source of the problem could well be found in seminaries. These are supposed to be training colleges for priests but fell into a terrible state sometime in the 1950s-1980s, essentially turning their back on traditional priestly formation and going with the times. Small wonder that in the midst of the Sexual Revolution, these men were untrained in the discipline, life of prayer, and piety that formed their predecessors into heroes and saints for centuries. Instead the seminaries began to reflect the world, pop psychology, social justice, peace and love — all the misbegotten ideas of the times. Some priests ceased to be men of discipline and faith; they even stopped praying. In other words there may be a connection in which a priest who stops praying and fasting, and begins falling into sexual depravity.

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/Raging_Ranter Raging_Ranter

      Much as I'd love to blame the 60s, the hippies, and modern pop psychology, I really don't know how much of this problem we can attribute to those things. I do suspect that modern pop psychology, with it's emphasis on the pursuit of "self-esteem" above all else, is a societal cancer that creates more problems than anyone is aware of. What was once called narcissism is now called "high self-esteem".

  • Hunter Creek

    They abuse girls too……but I guess that's alright…at least it's not "same-psex"…..I worked in the Arctic with them…..most of them are alcoholics up there…I guess they must get banished…"out of sight out of mind" sort of thing….they played "havoc" with nuns and native girls…I didn't see or hear of the boys. I was only 17 when Ifirst went there with HBC…they never bothered with me.

  • TedTylerEzro

    The native communities of the North and the residential schools definitely took the brunt of clerical abuse. Priests that were problematic were dumped in the places where no one else wanted to work. Not only sexual abusers, but drunks and the mentally ill as well.

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/Civil_rightist Civil_rightist

    This is a story that simply will not go away. Why? It isn't about the perverted priest. It's about the continuing cover up by the hierarchy from the lower levels to the highest. It's still raging in Ireland at the moment and doesn't bode well for the Roman Catholic church. We could go on and on as to why there's a need to cover up and most reasons would ring true. But at the core it's the same problem, ie the extremely centralized bureaucracy and the law of inertia. For my part, there is no solution to this quagmire… eventually, the Church will have influence only in those under/undeveloped countries and ultimately will loose any influence anywhere. And by the way, the same applies to other churches that are heavily centralized…Those left, will serve the spiritual needs of those believers that are left.

  • karus

    exactly… perhaps the greater evidence surfaced in those countries. Also, the issue of pedophilia is well recognized in the orthodox church. They actually prohibit children around residences of solitary monks. And this is the only reason – to prevent pedophilia.

  • TedTylerEzro

    Actually, Geoghan is from Boston, and Prince is from Ontario etc. But I get your point.

    However, it is simply a fact that while there have been other child sex abuse cases worldwide in the Catholic Church, the problem has not been as endemic and widespread as it has been in dioceses that are dominated by the Irish. Is this just because the Irish are the only ones speaking out? Perhaps, but it is instructive I think that this has not nearly been as much of a problem in places like Quebec (which also had undue deference and then widespread apostasy) and northeast United States where Italians have large ethnic enclaves in the same cities as the Irish you'd be hard pressed to find abusers with a vowel at the end of their name in the numbers you find those with Irish surnames.

    It is definitely something worth looking into.

  • mel

    there seems to be something that people are overlooking here. the reason it seems that there are so many child abusers in the church, is that it makes sense that they would be attracted to a place where they can be in close contact with young children whose parents think they can let their guard down. you always find pedophiles where children gather. schools, team sports, community centers, scouts, and churches. all churches, not just catholic ones. i went to a baptist christian school, and one of my teachers was discovered to have been having an affair with a student at the school he was employed at before my school, which was another christian institution.

  • mel

    this kind of thing will always be a problem in any place where there are kids, cuz that's where pedophiles want to be. unfortunately for church congregations, church leaders, to a point, have to trust that the people they're accepting into positions of power in their ranks are good people. if you don't have a record, then it's just your word they have to go on. no one is going to come right out and say they like to have sex with children. the problem with the catholic church, more than any other organization that deals with kids, is the extent they went to to ignore, hide, and lie about this problem. along with the actual offenders, the people who covered for them and shuffled them around should be punished just as harshly, if not more so.

  • Adelade

    I have to agree with many of you, that the root of the problem with pedophilia in the priesthood lies in the Bishops' suppression of the scandals when they occurred, and the fact that the priesthood is an opportune place to come into contact with many young people.
    I am surprised, however, that no one has really commented on the issue of priestly celibacy. While allowing a married clergy would definitely not stop pedophiles from becoming priests (or from acting on their sexual urges, for that matter), it would definitely draw many more stable and 'normal' men into the vocation of the priesthood. In a time when Europe and North America are experiencing a major shortage of priests, I can't help but question if one of the current reasons that the Bishops are ignoring scandals and shipping guilty priests to other areas, is to try and preserve the small number of clergy who are left, so that they can keep parishes 'staffed'. Although a married, and thus more populated, clergy would not assist the scandalous atrocities that have occurred in the past, it might motivate the present Bishops to act on disciplining those priests found guilty of child abuse or other scandals. Not only should the guilty clergy be held legally accountable, but they should be defrocked and removed from the privilege of being able to celebrate Mass on the altar.
    The mandatory celibacy rule for Roman Catholic priests was only introduced and mandated 800 years ago, as a result of scandals that were occurring over a misuse of authority, finances and inheritance of Church property. This may have served its purpose for that time period, but it seems high time that the RC hierarchy reinvestigate that decision!

  • delford t louis

    heard somewhere priests are men who have undergone a training sorta like brain washing with a bent twist of reality and are intertwined with white magic and control over the fearful, the guilt ridden, those of hell bent convictions, etc. and headed by all male staff hierarchy….figure that out! in feudal times and days of yore, religion was established to undertake philanthropic ideals to feed the poor help the needy sick and old,etc. and everyone and their cat wanted supreme power over lost souls…gone a bit overboard and awry in the last thousand years or so wouldn't you say? maybe society should rethink these tax free orgys (short for organizations)

    • TedTylerEzro

      Aww… was reading the article itself and commenting on it too difficult for you?

  • http://www.inquisition.ca xpio

    For starters how is this possible that it's hard to believe that not every catholic priest is a pedophile… is this a common feeling nowadays. Does Lahey make every bishop in Canada a homosexual child pornographer? Hello?

    I am out of touch with this whole thing, and the article doesn't differ at all from the rest that slams the truth and is just another socio far cry from it.

    • michael paul

      I have read your posting several times and I am trying to figure out what you are saying. How about giving it another try. Are you saying that all Catholic clergy are pedophiles? Or that the article paints them that way?

      Thanks

  • rembr

    Many years ago Bishop Julton J Sheen (1895-1919 ) in one of his TV programs told of a convert who had been a card-carrying member of the Communist Party. Her job had been to recruit men who were willing to become priests and religious in order to subvert the church from within, as it was considered impossible to destroy it from without. She alone recruited 1200 men ,up to that time .How many others were recruited ? Are we now reaping the results of this plan?

    • michael paul

      "Are we now reaping the results of this plan?"
      What "plan"? What does that mean?

    • faithfulskeptic

      And his name was Fulton, not Julton.

    • http://imnodhimmi.com Anti-Ummah

      "Many years ago Bishop Julton J Sheen (1895-1919 ) in one of his TV programs"
      Well, TV didn't exist at the turn of the century, so I am thinking you either mistyped, are misinformed, or intentionally are misleading. In any case your post is useless.

    • wellwell

      Funny, I always thought Sheen was gay for sure. But he sure did have a hate on for Communists – I remember that.

  • rembr

    Julton J. Sheen lived from 1895 to 1979. Sorry !

  • sot

    It is becoming apparent, that homos have worn out their welcome and attempt at accepyance, all over the World. An old Country, Uganda is setting the course of whats is to come.

  • michael reilley

    please add the Reverend Harold T. Forster who abused 48 boys at an Anglican private school between 1953-62.

  • Bill Gallerizzo

    I am an ordained deacon in the Catholic Church. Having been involved in the Church for 58 years as a server, as a seminarian during high school, as a liturgical musician, and as a deacon, I personally did not see evidence or witness any proclivity. Still, as a parent, I made it my point to be involved in my own kids' activities (Church work, scouts, athletic teams, etc). To me being a vigilant and involved parent was part of my responsibilities and not to be panned off on others.

    • Canadian Student

      What is the difference between a deacon and a priest? As far as appling for jobs, is a deacon one who holds a job outside the Church? Furthermore, the nature of abuse is secrecy; if there was abuse going on, while I imagine you might have become aware before the congregation would, it is possible the abuse passed you by. Of course the Church has been put in an impossible situation and wrong has been done; but the purpose of this article is that we should move forward. This inculdes not only aiding the victims and fixing the abuse problems but also healing relationships with the Church and clergy. Maybe not right away, these things are damaging, but at least taking preliminary steps towards recovery.

  • Bill Gallerizzo

    My apologies for the duplication of some of my recent comments. My connection kept fluctuating.

    Deacon Bill Gallerizzo

  • hurricane

    Of course not every Catholic priest is a pedophile.

    The problem is the Church covering up the actions of those who are. If I were to aid and abet a law breaker, I am quite sure my sorry a$$ who be hauled to jail. Priests get rotated to new parishes, everything is hush hush. The abuse continues.

    Charges should be laid at the highest levels, be they bishops, popes, it doesn't matter. Whoever knows. There is no impunity or infallibility for humans.

    • TedTylerEzro

      Well, you can't lay charges against the Pope, since he is a sovereign of a foreign state, without declaring war.

      I agree that where links can be made for culpability, arrests should be made. However, a lot of this mess predates ideas that employers have responsiblities towards their employees that committed a crime that they don't condone in the course of their work. As well, a lot of the abuse continued to occur because charges weren't laid, but instead were handed back by the police to the church to discipline internally, or there were no charges laid either because the victims never stepped forward, the police never followed up, or because it was handled privately.

      This has been a problem in many organizations outside the church, such as in school districts, charities, hospitals, prisons, and other bureaucracies. What responsibilities do peers and authorities have? Is prison always the response that should be used in cases of sexual or physical abuse? Should people be returned to their duties after they have completed psychiatric rehabilitation? There is a lot of banal evil that can occur in answering those three questions wrongly, but very not evil I would characterize as malicious.

  • Bill Gallerizzo

    I don't think there is one answer to the why or what of the abuse situation. I think that alot of factors – homosexuality, celibacy, poor seminary training, sexual revolution, latchkey syndrome – came to collision simultaneously, not the least of which was the sense of sin and forgivenss in the Church versus a failure to recognize that regardless of the sense of forgiveness, criminal activity and psychopathic behavior warrant special attention. Even in the case of the anonimity of confession, if a priest becomes privy to such activity, he is morally bound to find a way to address the justice issue while maintaining confessional silence, which incidentally does not mean turning a blind eye. It means trying to find a creative way that maintains a sense of justice for both perpetrator and victim. If he cannot, then he is supposed to seek assistance in how to do that constructively. How might a priest respond to someone confessing to a murder? The same holds true here.

  • Bill Gallerizzo

    As clergy, all of us, priests and deacons are coming under scutiny on many planes for this. In my own case, my wife and I moved to our present residence to be close to our grandchildren from another diocese 500 miles away. Since arriving here 3 years ago with highly professional credentials, 60-some job applications later I have only been able to secure two interviews. In fact, for one of the interviews, I was the top candidate. When they found out that I am a deacon, the job suddenly disappeared from the radar. The worst thing we as clergy can do is to keep silent on the abuse matter. We have to address it and condemn the actions of it from the pulpit with certain levels of sensitivity to the victims and their pain, if we are to restore our credibility. Yes it may be painful for many folks and for us, but we have to say it and openly talk about it if it is to ever cease. God works through all of us here on Earth and we have to be the vehicles through which He can bring justice to those who feel betrayed

  • Guest

    One problem with the older crimes is that back in a 50's and 60's, pedophilia and sexual abuse were hidden crimes regardless of who committed them. You simply didn't talk about them. Thousands of victims went unaided because people couldn't believe someone–a scout leader, a religious leader, a family member–especially a parent–could do a thing like that. If it was spoken of, it was never spoken of directly. Cover-ups and secrecy back then wasn't just a Catholic thing. (Of course, now they have no reason…we are much more free, it should be addressed openly and the book should be thrown!)

  • Evan Smith

    First of all, this article utterly disgusted me. It makes one wonder what is truly safe in this world when the priest of your own holy church commits such felonies as molesting young innocent kids. Especially since being in a church or under a priest's wing is supposedly the safest spot a child could be, it really makes no sense as to why these holy figures would commit these sins toward familes and people who have trusted in the organization and have been loyal to for many years. What would happen if the parents were to find out? Would they be accepting to take action against their own priest? Would the option of moving to a new priest even enter their minds? This is a great wound that will not easily heal to all catholics, priests, and holy churches around the world.

    -Evan, 17

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