Talking suicide on the Internet

Nadia Kajouji discussed killing herself in a Web chat room

by Michael Barclay on Thursday, December 3, 2009 11:40am - 11 Comments

In March 2008, Carleton University student Nadia Kajouji committed suicide, drowning herself in the Rideau River. When Ottawa police searched her laptop, they discovered conversations she had online with a man named William Melchert-Dinkel, a 47-year-old male nurse living outside of Minneapolis, Minn. Police say that he used an Internet chat room to encourage Kajouji to kill herself—furthermore, according to transcripts of their chats, he even suggested that she hang herself (instead of drowning) so he could watch.

Melchert-Dinkel has not been charged for his alleged role in Kajouji’s death. But the incident motivated Kitchener-Conestoga MP Harold Albrecht to introduce a private member’s motion seeking to clarify the Criminal Code, by specifying the role of the Internet in the existing provision that makes it illegal to “counsel a person to commit suicide” or to aid or abet them in doing so, whether or not they are successful. Albrecht told Maclean’s, “By clarifying this loophole, this takes current technology and places it within the law so that there’s no question for law enforcement officials.” The motion passed unanimously in the House on Nov. 18.

The Ottawa Citizen reported that shortly after being questioned by Minnesota police, Melchert-Dinkel checked himself into a Minnesota hospital. He confessed that he was addicted to Internet chat rooms and felt guilty “because of past and present advice to those on the Internet of how to end their lives,” according to hospital notes that were quoted by the Minnesota Board of Nursing in their decision to revoke his nursing licence this summer. In October, Melchert-Dinkel told the Associated Press that “nothing is going to come” of the allegations pertaining to Kajouji and eight other cases he has been linked to. “I’ve moved on with my life, and that’s it,” he said.

Harold Albrecht and his fellow MPs hope that’s not the end of the story.

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  • delford t louis

    oh please! the internet chatters are obnoxiously laughable people who wish to be read and evidently the job is often accomplished…no one as relegated to read by force or with shot gun to head..people still have free will and the internet is largely a form of entertainment…..those who are intent on ousting perverted users or psychopathic terrorists and other criminal minded wannabes… it is not difficult to find them and where they live including their computer location…politicians included

  • Sam

    The internet should remain a place for free speech. This is an unfortunate situation but I don’t believe anything that should be classified as a criminal offence has happened here. Counseling a person to commit suicide/euthanasia should not be illegal.

  • Sam

    The government decision is non-binding. Hopefully the courts do not comply as I see no need for this clarification to the law.

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    The suicide rate could very well have increased due to the people who ARE NOT country music fans, killing themselves to end the torture. After all, the article said the study was in metropolitan areas, not rural.

  • Bill

    I think it is a good idea to add the provision to existing laws to include the Internet if it is used to aid,abet, assist or counsel someone to commit suicide. Once a person has reached that low point in their thoughts as to end their life, they no longer really have free-will as the rest of us do. Their thought process is out of sync and they may only be seeking attention in the chat rooms or they are sounding out what it is that they actually intend to do, either way they should be getting help for their problem and to counsel them to commit the act is criminal and should be treated as such.

  • cleargreen

    I agree Bill, I do have some direct insight into this area, as I was a chat room moderator for 3 years and I have been a registered psychiatric nurse for near 20 years.
    The problem here is it would take many many staff to monitor for this sort of chat in every room on every server on IRC and similar services.
    This sort of situation is usually akin to someone on the ground yelling jump to someone on the edge of a roof in most all cases, this particular case is different.
    He lost his licence, and he SHOULD be evaluated psychiatrically, clearly there are significant issues that need to be understood with this person BEFORE he is once again in a position to manipulate others. At the least he should be barred from the internet for life on penalty of incarceration, who knows, he might benefit from some 'insight development' from his peers in prison.

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    i'm not a big fan of big brother monitoring online chat conversations, even if they are about suicide, but I do wish individuals who hear these things online take more individual action

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    This is sad. Not too mention many minors are using the internet these days.

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    This is shocking. It's just terrible, and how could they let him get away with this!

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    It would be impossible to monitor all the chatrooms out there and I don't think that would be the right move anyway. People need to responsible for their own actions. Its obvious that this girl more than likely would have taken her own life even without this man encouraging her to do so but it is sad that he would do something like that rather than inform the authorities and try to get her some help.

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