Shy Adam Lambert comes to town

The ‘American Idol’ runner-up shares his views on gays on TV and the ‘closed-minded’

by Elio Iannacci on Monday, February 8, 2010 12:30pm - 107 Comments

Adam Lambert is not a fan of the phrase “less is more.” Sitting in an office at a Toronto radio station, the 28-year-old American Idol runner-up has just undergone his seventh makeup application for the day, and is wrapped in a grey scarf that is the size of a small comforter. “It’s a gift from Oprah,” he explains, as he starts to take off the fabric—which covers his six-foot-one frame like a sari—“she’s such a sweetie.” Although today’s schedule does not include any live performances, Lambert is completely stage-ready, sporting his signature black guyliner, spiked raven-coloured hair, and a face fully coated with a heavy dose of beige concealer. “I’ve never been that guy . . . ” the singer nicknamed “Glambert” says, before untangling the nest of silver necklaces and feathers hanging down his chest.

“You know, the one who’s always wanted to have a quiet, subtle life.”

The past few months for the openly gay singer have been anything but quiet. On Nov. 22, a day before the release of his disc, For Your Entertainment, Lambert performed at the American Music Awards, broadcast on ABC. During his number, he proceeded to grind one of his dancer’s faces into his pelvis, grab the crotch of another, and passionately kiss his male keyboardist. ABC got over 1,500 complaint calls and subsequently reneged on its offer to have him perform on Good Morning America.

Looking back, Lambert is surprisingly upbeat about the fallout. “My performance is something I’m extremely proud of and I wouldn’t change a thing. I am glad it facilitated a conversation about what kind of double standards there are out there, since Christina Aguilera, Britney and Madonna have kissed [on air] before without getting [banned].” Lambert adds, “I do think it was ironic that I was replaced [on Good Morning America] with Chris Brown [convicted of assaulting girlfriend Rihanna].”

What Lambert feels should be of more concern to TV networks is how gays are being represented on mainstream television shows. “All you see is the same type of gay stereotype on Glee, Ugly Betty and Entourage. There’s a clown element to them all. It’s always the sissy guy that’s passive and effeminate who gets it,” he clarifies. “I’ve seen a little bit of the polar extreme opposite too—the gay guy who’s a total butch dude—but we need to see [gay roles] that are much more human and complex. Showing diversity is a way of fighting discrimination. And it is still out there. If you go on iTunes, there are a ton of beautiful reviews of my music, but there is also a large portion of ignorant people posting things like ‘Gross, he’s gay.’ ”

According to Lambert, “closed-mindedness has made rock music become so conservative and filled with [macho] dudes when it should be filled with people like David Bowie,” who, he says, “challenged people’s perceptions with his work.” One musician Lambert feels is building on Bowie’s legacy is fellow popster Lady Gaga. “I swear, she is a gay man, and I mean that in the most affectionate way.

Nobody else respects gay culture the way she does because she’s lived it, worked in the clubs, and has a close-knit family of guys who look out for her. She knows how to push the envelope in the right way.”

Lambert was so impressed with Lady Gaga’s first album, The Fame, that he ended up recording a track she gave him called Fever. “The session was amazing,” he recalls. “She walked in wearing a costume—which is really daywear for her—and I loved it because I went totally costume-y that day too. Before cutting the track, we had a little listening party. She played songs off The Fame Monster—it hadn’t come out yet—and I played my demos. She gave her me two cents on my songs and we had a couple of whiskeys. Then we recorded the song.”

Following in Gaga’s platformed footsteps, Lambert’s next career move will be planning a soon-to-be-announced tour as well as releasing an EP, which will contain remixes of his first two singles plus a brand new track. In terms of staging his next slew of concerts, Lambert says he wants to keep everything “really simple—a bunch of hot dancers, arty video graphics, a lot of costume changes and fire. You know, just the basics.”

As for the show that launched him, “I hope my success on Idol can be seen as a symbol of ongoing change,” he says. “They’ve had contestants on the show who have either been gay or seemed gay but they didn’t get very far, but I don’t think that will be the case anymore. If they’d ask me to be a judge, I would definitely say yes.”

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  • Phoebe

    I am so proud of Mr Lambert. He enjoys what he does and makes his fans vritually DIE at the sight of him. Adam, don't change anything, be yourself be as gay as you want to be cause America and the rest of the world will soon be your oyster!!!! You have a talent from God!!!

  • Jane

    Adam is a rising star! Can't wait for his solo concert! For those Adam bashers out there, please leave him alone.

  • Debbye

    Anyone see the Today Show this morning??? Showing Sandra and Meryl with a full-on kiss. Hmmmm. This is a morning show–with children watching. What? And Meredith commenting about how people love to see women kiss. Talk about double standard.

  • FBJC

    erm, Clay Aiken vehemently denied that he's gay for at least 2 years, keeping that squeaky clean choir boy image for God knows how long, so obviously his CD's gonna sell more (I own a copy, I admit it myself) because it's non-offensive, easy to listen to and quite generic pop. He also had a lot more radio air time. I'd be interested to know what would happen if he announced right after AI that he's gay (personally I'd still have bought his CD because I liked him, but I can't vouch for others now can i?)

    Adam Lambert on the other hand isn't even targeting the same audience as Clay, and they're completely different artists. Adam is a lot edgier and his vocal range is much wider than Clay's. Their music styles are almost polar opposites, heck, just look at the way they present themselves!

    Did Clay get black-labelled by the media the day before his album came out? No. Did Clay get a Rolling Stone cover when he came out? No. When Clay came second he was the poster boy for normal every-day boy-next-door type with a great voice and happened to defeat all odds and get to where he was (his audition appearance versus finals appearance). When Adam came second he wasn't exactly hailed in such a light where everyone could relate to him, he's too wild and crazy to be linked to anything ordinary/normal, which to me is probably the reason why he lost out to goody goody Kris Allen (devout Christian, boy-next-door type with great voice, ring a bell anyone? Obviously I'm not trying to imply Kris will come out in a few years time).

  • FBJC

    It's kind of silly to be comparing anyone to a overnight sensation that happened what, 7 years ago, when the internet media is nowhere as accessible as today, where if you like an artist you couldn't just go to youtube and listen to tracks on there, instead you just HAVE to buy the album. Neither could you download albums (or at least downloading wasn't that popular back them). Take me for example, I actually listened to all Adam's tracks on the internet many times before deciding that instead of downloading it illegally (or download the youtube 'videos' using realplayer and then sticking it into my mp3 player, like a lot of my friends do) I should really support him and get a copy of his actual CD.

    Why do people have to compare two completely different artists just because they both happened to be gay? Instant success doesn't guarantee longevity in the business, as much as I liked Clay Aiken before he's not really doing that great is he now? Plus I was really disheartened to see his comments on Adam Lambert while he was at AI, it just didn't quite match the nice boy-next-door image that Clay used to portray.

    We'll see how Adam does. I hope for entertainment's sake America will not suffocate another interesting character who happened to be a really damn good singer.

    • cindy

      FBJC, I agree and remember all those Claymates, just lining up to be his bride? All of that went POOF! after he came out, no more hope. Adam oozes sex appeal. From every pore. Interesting, yes, talented, yes, and honest.

  • Cindy

    To Fred, I respect your opinion of Adam and his gayness. However, and it is only my opinion, I feel that the MEDIA has had a great impact on the way that Adam is presented. He is very open, yes, but he has broken ground and because of that, he has garnered press and publicity that throws the issue in his face at every turn. If someone wants to get hits on the internet, well, Adam's name does the trick. I have heard Adam say MANY times that music and entertaining are his main goals. I think we all need to cut him a break and just enjoy his rare talent.

  • kumulus

    I would buy tickets in a heartbeat to see Adam at the casino if I lived closer (I'm in MO). I so wish I could go to that concert, just like I wished I could go to Gridlock. I just can't afford to fly out, rent a room, rent a car, etc. However, I'll be there in a New York minute when he tours to a city w/in better driving distance to me. I went to the Idols summer tour only because Adam was performing. Adam, please come back to Kansas City. If you want a venue smaller than the Sprint Center, we have a lot of different-sized venues in which artists perform, including casinos. Your music is being played here, too. Thank you Mix 93.3!!!

    I bought Clay Aiken's CD when it came out (and voted for him, too), but truthfully only listened to the CD a few times. And I was very disappointed in his Christmas CD (however, I love his "Mary, Did You Know?"). I have listened only to Adam ever since his CD came out. I can hardly stand to listen to anyone else now. He's got me so spoiled with his wonderful vocals and the variety of sounds on his CD, which is so much fun. As I've said before, it's like a party in my car.

  • Fred – Brandon MB

    My oldest son is gay, and I love him and his life partner. There are other gays in our family and nobody blinks an eye, or treats them as different than anyone else.

    But I don't think much of Adam Lambert. He is doing the gay community a disservice with his "in your face" attitude. I don't see this confrontational stance from other gay entertainers I enjoy ( Ellen Degeneres, Wanda Sykes, Elvira Kurt) They aren't shy about their sexual orientation, but they don't wield like a weapon and taunt people with it.

    The unfortunate fact is that gay-ness makes a segment of the population uncomfortable and antagonizing them doesn't do anyone any good.

    • katie

      hey!!!! there are gay ppl that are huge Lambert fans that are reading this!!! I AM GAY!!! and he is not doing a "disservice"!

    • Mel

      To "Fred – Brandon MB" – my friend, you are, or at least what you have written here, is part of the problem, not the solution. One gay man is NOT EVERY GAY MAN – that attitude EXACTLY what is part of the problem!!!!! I have been fortunate enough to have had 3 wonderful gay male friends in my life – all 3 of them are quite conservative actually, and two of their partners are as well – but one of them has a partner who is a little more exuberant and outgoing and creative and out of the box…but he is authentically himself, and I love him for it. It makes my heart feel good to know that he has found the confidence to be himself in this world. My boy-next-door-grown-up-to-be-banker-fairly-conservative-traditional male friend is one gay male, but Adam Lambert is another… each existing and thriving as they are, living true to themselves… and sometimes my friend, Adam Lambert is also the boy next door, and for that I say thank goodness!

    • nulla

      I totally disagree—what you say here is similar to the “uppity” comments of 50 years ago of MLK and Malcolm X. Like somehow if you are gay it’s ok as long as you know your place….

      • Mel

        Well said Nulla!

  • Jane 2

    Adam Lambert needs to get over himself.

  • kumulus

    (cont. due to space constraints)

    And just to correct FBJC, Clay had a cover on Rolling Stone right after Idol (although true, it wasn't when he came out, which was much later). You have to give Adam points for honesty.

    Also, I wish people would stop referring to Adam as "openly gay" singer, or openly gay anything. Do people refer to Elton John as "openly gay" anything? Uh, no. I think by now everyone knows Adam's sexual orientation. Let's move on and just enjoy his music.

    • Neville

      ummm….adam IS openly gay. and proudly so. get over it.

    • FBJC

      sorry I meant a cover on Rolling Stone when he 'came out', not when he was coming off AI

    • Guest

      One of the main reasons Clay put off coming out openly was his travels for UNICEF. In all but one of the several countries where he spent weeks at a time (Indonesia, Uganda, Somalia, Kenya, Afghanistan, etc), his life would have been very endangered. He has represented UNICEF for over 5 years, and that opportuniity as very important to him. Adam should remember that would also be true of himself.

      • Guest

        Clay is just about ready to make his presence felt again, for those of you who ask Clay "who", here is some information to use in comparison (as time goes by): approximately $40,000,000 worth of concert tickets sold – after Idol's concerts, 613,000 albums sold the first week and 6 million to date, over 760 TV and personal appearances, and yes, he was on the cover of Rolling Stone right after Idol (I think it was June or early July). And, his single of This is the Night/Bridge Over Troubled Water was the best selling single of the year, and the best selling debut artist in over a decade. Chapter two is about to begin. You wouldn't get these answers if you didn't have bad or incorrect posts all the time. Kumulus, this is not all to you, but several different posters here. Keep lovin' Adam – he is great. We'll see how he does.

  • Stacey

    I Love Adam!!! His voice is sooo sexy and great!!! I dont care if he is gay, straight or whatever!!! He can sing for me any day!!! As far as I am concerned it is Good Morning America's loss not to have Adam on the show!!

  • katie

    Ya Know what! kris was…good, okay. but who was the FIRST person EVER to get a standing ovation from Simon??? hmmn? ADAM LAMBERT!!!! :) i am in LOVE with him for 4 reasons: he is SOOOO sexy, his voice is flippin' AWESOME, his eyeliner is RADICAL (i hope adam will read this….if so, call me…PLEASE!!!) and Adam Lambert was not afraid to admit that he was gay! i am only 14 and i happen to also be gay and adam really spoke to me in a way that only an angel could!!! i dont know why people are so hung up by yelling and making fun of him because of it!!!! its SICKENING!!! UGH!! i hated my school of 208 for making fun of me!!! imagine how Adam Feels!!! having the whole world laughing!!!!

  • C, Wilson

    Adam needs a hit pretty soon here. I say release Fever next.

    • JMS

      Yes, Fever would be a great hit.
      What's up with little radio air time? I see/hear enough fans complaining they request but not played. How does this work?? Adam Lambert hands down is the freshest artist in a long time. Unique in his music, can sing his a- – off, and can make me feel like dancing, singing, sexy and calm all ine one CD! Love the CD, Rock on Adam.

  • Guest

    Why do you fall back on stupid labels like "openly gay"? Do you refer to Elton John as the openly gay singer? Do you call Ellen Degeneres the openly gay talk show host" How about convicted assaulter Chris Brown? Can't you just do an interview without the label, or are you just looking for conflict to sell your article?

  • Alice

    Ah the rumor mill. Adam concert sold very quickly. I was lucky to get a spot on the floor about 600 seats back. The only ticket left a few days ago was in the rear far corner. I assume some folks will buy and sell since they may be coming from far away. Only those who truly listen to his voice and music understand. He is amazing. LIke the first time people heard the perfection of Julie Andrews or Freddy Mercury. If you can't hear it, I'm really sorry.

  • Anne

    Wonder no more why Adam doesn't get airplay. There is an agenda to PUSH Kris and put Adam on HOLD. If not, Adam will drown out Kris' CD. It is to legitimize Kris' win and make money out of him before he fades away. Because Adam will be big, no doubt about it. If the producers would not do it, there's no way Kris would forge ahead with his career and AI would lose face and be the laughing stock for their anomalous voting system that gives Kris the win. What else is there any reason for playing Kris over and over if not PAYOLA?

  • Laurie

    Great article I have been a fan of Adam Lamberts since I accidentally heard him sing on AI. I wish I could go to the Fantasy Spring show but I can't. I am really amazed at how many tickets have been sold without proper promoting, but then again I am not really that surprised given Adams talent, voice and appeal.

    I am not really sure who Clay Aitken is so I can't really comment on him. With regards to Kris Allen, I think he is talented and a really nice guy but his voice is nothing compared to Adams and I think even Kris realizes that. But there is plenty of room in the industry for both so rock on!

  • lori

    Adam is an amazing performer. I listen to his CD everyday and can't seem to get enough. I have never felt this way about a entertainer before. Just give him time he will mesmerize you all.

  • Mel

    I would have enjoyed this article more if the author had not injected it with the snarky undertone. If you have a pov Mr. Iannacci, be direct about it. Also, I will comment here what I commented on another site which excerpted this article minus the snarky undertone – and that comment was that I believe that part, just part, of the reason why some may find Lambert unlikeable is that underlyingly they find him threatening, in that he – how shall I say it – can make the knees go weak of your girlfriend, your boyfriend, your Mother, your BFF, your best bud next door, your little sister, possibly your brother and maybe, just maybe, your Dad too ;). Hate on me if you will, but way down deep you're thinking I have a point. And on a more elevated level – Lambert is a great human being as well as a great artist… he's young and having fun and still that club kid sure, but he's a lovely individual, and that is so attractive.

    • nina

      what other site?

  • Marilyn

    I too am a GLAMBERT and am 63 yrs old!! Watched every episode of AI to see him, and am even a member of his official website. Adam is definitely a rising star and I am watching his climb all the way

  • Tom

    He screams on most songs; where he sings it's loud and forceful, rather than soft and sensitive, so his songs mean nothing to me, other than showing he's just another young gay man striving for attention.

    • Twisted Sister

      a lot of singers "scream", specially metal and hard rock singers. That's a vocal technique that just a few singers can do. If you don't like it that's fine but that doesn't mean he's bad. In fact he can go as low as he goes high. He's an extremely good vocalist who's trying to make a name for himself in an industry that is falling down. You just happen to not like him. Being gay is totally irrelevant.

  • Tom

    Kissing was not the issue, it was simulated oral sex that went on for about 7 seconds, with Adam trying to justify it by saying other stars kiss on stage, however I've never see Ellen, Lady Gaga, or any other gay star so blatently simulate oral sex to an all-age audience.

  • imrah

    Adam Lambert is a megastar,there is no one as talented,sweet,honest and charimatic artist out there. Love his CD and have been following him since the begining of AI 8. If I had time off from work I would def. go to his cocert.

  • Adam Glambert

    Adam Lambert was a BIG PLANT on American Idol and had years of professional experience before he appeared on Idol. He had even appeared on a dvd with Val Kilmar and was working professionally before he appeared on Idol. He should never have been on the show because he already had entertainment contacts before he appeared on Idol.

    • Jack

      erm Matt Giraud released a CD before going onto AI, Allison won another singing competition and actually had a CD contract prior to AI, what's your point?

  • Britte

    I have an almost embarassing combination of feelings for Adam…..one of pride over 'my little brother' in his successes, one of total, jaw-dropping amazement at his talent, another of desiring his smokin' man body and moves, and the other of wanting to sit down with him and a bottle of wine and laugh really hard and talk about things as a best friend. I'm totally in chaos, but I'm definately hooked! Sheesh!

    • Angel

      You have a twin in me, Britte. LOL!

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