The secret life of Colonel Russell Williams

If police are correct, he was a cold-blooded planner who in hours could transform from commander to monster

by Martin Patriquin, Anne Kingston, Cathy Gulli, Michael Friscolanti with Kate Lunau, Tom Henheffer, Philippe Gohier, John Geddes, Patricia Treble and Michael Barclay on Tuesday, February 16, 2010 1:08pm - 124 Comments

The move meant he and his wife would have to sell their two-storey home in the Orléans area of Ottawa, and split their days between the lakefront home in Tweed, a 45-minute drive from Trenton, and a new, $700,000 townhouse in the trendy Ottawa enclave of Westboro Village. “They were the perfect couple,” says Shirley White, who lived two doors down from the couple in Orléans. When Williams was sworn in as the base commander, Shirley’s husband, George, was invited to the ceremony.

Today, roughly a dozen ice fishing huts are visible from Williams’s back porch. Until news of his arrest, ice fishing and a 315-foot Canadian flag scarf knitted by Tweed women in honour of the Olympics were the town’s winter obsession. Williams and his wife were drawn to the town of 5,600 because of the view and affordable lakefront property. In 2004, the couple paid $178,000 for a light-grey bungalow and a piece of land on Cosy Cove Lane, a tree-lined dirt road hugging the lake about five kilometres outside of town.

Williams and his wife were sporadic weekenders on Cosy Cove. When they were around, though, Williams’s wife, Mary Elizabeth, was the more outgoing of the two, while Williams himself seemed to come and go at odd hours. “I’d never heard of the guy before the news,” said Lawrence Ramsay, owner of the local pub. “I’d never seen him before in my life.” He didn’t own a snowblower or a lawn tractor. “He did everything the old-fashioned way,” said Larry Jones, his next-door neighbour.

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Over the last five years Jones had minimal contact with his neighbour. A retired surveyor with Ontario’s Ministry of Natural Resources, Jones found Williams to be friendly but quiet, only speaking when spoken to. Williams came over once for a party, and Jones would sometimes plow Williams’s driveway when Mary Elizabeth asked. Late last October, Jones returned home to find several police cars outside his house. “Did I get broken into?” Larry asked. “No, Larry, it’s way worse than that,” replied a police officer.

Throughout October, police had been looking for a suspect in the two cases of home invasions in the area, in which the female victims were tied up and sexually assaulted. The first victim, a woman from the Toronto area who had moved to Tweed barely a month before the Sept. 17 attack, lived on Charles Road, accessible from Cosy Cove Lane through a wooded path.

The next victim, who was attacked in the early morning hours of Sept. 30, lived even closer, a few doors down from Jones. This woman fingered Jones to the police, who—still unaware of Williams’s alleged involvement—came armed with a search warrant for Jones’s house. They were looking for several pairs of panties, some La Senza brand brassieres and a baby blanket–evidence from the first victim, the mother of a baby who was reportedly in the house at the time of the assault. “The cops told me that [the second victim] recognized my voice in the room with her,” Jones said. “I said she was either lying or she was badly mistaken because I wasn’t there.”

The police hauled away Jones’s hunting knife, boots, camera and two old computers destined for the landfill. He volunteered to do “anything to clear my name,” and provided DNA, fingerprints and a polygraph. “I had nothing to hide. After that, the cop says, ‘Larry, go home, put your feet up, and have a cold beer. You’re clear 100 per cent.’ ” Still, because no arrests were made, he continued to live under a cloud. His wife, Bonnie, the treasurer of a neighbouring municipality, received a phone call one day shortly after police visited their house. “What’s it like to live with a murderer?” asked the female caller, according to Jones.

The second victim, who lives down the street, has said little. Earlier this week, she drove through a phalanx of TV trucks, past a police checkpoint and onto her property, a bungalow less than a 30-second walk from the home of the man who allegedly assaulted her. “Thank you,” she said, when a reporter expressed sympathy for her ordeal. She then dragged out a large “No Trespassing” sign, placed it beside her front door, and went inside.

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  • Observer #77

    Not only was he leading up air security for the Olympics but think about it for a minute. Before the police got him, who was authorizing when and where to search the surrounding area by air for the victim? He was Commander. He was likely in charge of the air search. How sick do you have to be?

    This shows he didn't want to be caught. The fact he's sitting in a jail right now without a word to anyone claiming innocense to protect his career and the years he spent building his good name is a sign that the police have the right man.

    Looks like to me he didn't want to be caught but when he did get caught he didn't fight it. I'm interested to see what his alterior motive is. Maybe he's inadvertantly trying to fix the Canadian legal system? Maybe he's just a sick *&$#.

    I tend to choose the latter but people are strange creatures. Ever seen Law Abiding Citizen? Nothing is what it seems.

    • NOT Sleezy Here…

      Williams might have been a 'monor wheel' on the base but the Canadian Forces don't control the OPP or the local police forces.

      • Observer77

        of course not but the choppers and planes searching for her were military my friend.

  • NOT Sleezy Here…

    Williams might have been a 'minor wheel' on the base but the Canadian Forces don't control the OPP o the local police forces.

  • crazyflag

    Lots of jargon to here e.g. sufficient pertinent abstract use, neglected complex anchored in a neglected and repressed function, psyche's self-balancing tensional forces, demonically controlled autonomous complex, etc.

    I sense you are using the above to pass the buck – ultimately Williams is responsible for his actions, not society's 'ignorance' and not Williams 'pushing himself too hard to excel and succeed'.

  • crazyflag

    Thanks for the clarification Indiana John. I understand your explanation of how you think Williams became a killer (and society's supposed role in this process) but I can't buy it.

    We all have dark thoughts, even murderous one. I don't agree with you when you say they come from 'outside'. They are your thoughts, you 'manufacture them' and, if you act them out, they are your actions. Williams is not special – he was not possessed by dark forces that he was unable to control. William's dark thought were his own but he acted on them whereas the rest of us recognise that it is wrong, even evil, to hurt, torture or kill another being (just as the confessor in your story knew his thoughts were wrong – and didn't act on them).

    I disagree that past societies were any better then ours at trying to recognise, help or stop people like Williams. They just used different jargon to try and make sense of thier terrible actions after the fact (e.g. possession by a demon, etc) as I believe you are doing now. Just like our society, they removed these people either by killing them, banishing them or imprisoning them so that they do no more harm.

  • carol

    A prayer for the woman and their families, as well as the Colonel's wife. My sympathies to the loyal men and women of the Canadian Armed Forces that trust, that have faith in, and that would confidently follow such a leader….. to their death if need be. What a blatant act of betrayal. Thank goodness for men like General Hillier, General Delair and all the excellent, honourable, and truly good officers that lead our awesome troops

    • Mary Diwelln

      Its Dallaire.

  • warren leming

    We've all heard of the German SS, family men of impeccable background, kind to their children and loving husbands: many of whom performed the most unspeakable acts while "cleansing" the Reich and its territories of those who opposed the Germans. Is there not an historical precedent here?

  • gjirfu

    strange things happen in small towns. this hasnt been proven in court yet. i hope you get sued.

  • shelly

    Just sick. This man needs to rot in hell (jail) they cant let him take the cowards way out by commniting suicide. They need to let him out in the general poulation. Why he is pertected is beyond me, he wasnt pertecting anyone when he did this forrible stuff to these ladies.
    You cant let him off with being "sick" this went on for years he is more then sick he is a killer and rapist. What if it was your mother, daughter or sister.

  • Greg

    I know it has been said before, but he didn't just now get started. This is very well practiced lifestyle. No one can dodge someone who has such a focus.He's the salesman who talks into buying something you don't need. If a suicide bomber is going to kill you, he does not normally advertise, he just appears. A sniper willl go to great lengths to hide, but arrange to snipe, kill you. A snake that climbs into your sleeping bag unnoticed- a practised but deadly burglar. My bet is that this man got started way early in life. The bones yet to be discovered are all the more the horror.

  • Mary Diwelln

    To Anon:

    May Elizabeth Harriman isn't the person with the problem, you are! Your idiotic assessment of the lady reveals just how stupid and uninformed you are!!!

    • Shocked

      I think Anon is right. She keeps the $700,000+ duplex, gives him the worthless cottage? Asks for compensation for the very minor damage to her fancy new home? That's out of my pocket, yours, and the victims. Meanwhile gets paid 6 figures a year?

      Not the kind of person I'd want representing MY charities.

    • LCol Seymour Idiots

      Hey Mary, do you still want to defend Monster Williams and his money grabbing wife? Did you follow the trial and fully absorb the levels of depravity and cruelty that was shown.

  • Mary Diwelln

    To Close Call:

    See Sgt. Lucy Critch. Quite a contrast. Which of you knew the real Russell Williams?

  • http://www.canadaairforce.com mark

    Yea things gone wrong with Russell Williams. i have ment him on my job as canadian air force. he seem a really good pilot.

  • DeannaW

    R.C. Carr what do you have to say now eh!! I know this sounds naive but I just do not trust anyone that has a line for lips like Russell Williams. Too thin lips or non-existent lips….eek

    His eyes are the windows to his soul…..scary

  • dougrogers

    Good luck. It's very difficult to explain to people this chain of causation, permission and enabling. No single individual is responsible for enabling this horror, but it is a twig from the branch of the tree in the forest from the seed that we planted and agree to live amongst while we cut the grass and pretend it's a park.

    It's easy for people to separate themselves from the psychology and psyche of the society that built them. But that position isn't the truth.

    • Indiana_John

      Thanks Doug. If only a journalist or two today had a deeper understanding. To his credit, Peter C. Newman, seems to have had at least an inkling of the problem as long ago as 1958.

      From the Vancouver Sun
      Accused killer's early years a mix of instability, privilege
      By Don Butler, Ottawa Citizen February 12, 2010 http://www.vancouversun.com/technology/Accused+ki…

      A 1958 story in Maclean's magazine by a young Peter C. Newman described Deep River as a "utopian attempt to create a happy environment where all is ordered for the best."

      Though seemingly idyllic, this life was oppressive to some. It was, they felt, too perfect and regimented.

      "The children are growing up in an artificial atmosphere — and it isn't only the children," one resident told Newman.

  • Andy

    It doesn't matter. Every society has unexplainable shocks that shake us all to the core. We can agonize all we want. It's impossible to understand…..the guy was snapped. Lock him up because we are always on the road to the next horrible story. Modern life creates pressures that simply ruin some people…..I doubt that there is anything we can do to eradicate these totally unexpected and horrible surprises. Andy

  • Weng

    Colonel Russell Williams must have an incredible amount of self-control and endurance to be able to work towards such a high official position. His superiors must have witnessed his good perseverance and continual persistence in his good work to eventually awarded him his job. Anyone who has worked so hard to reach such a high position would definitely not risk doing anything illegal act to bring all that achievements down. It is unfortunate that his lawyer and the prosecutor have not investigated far enough to find out the cause of his crimes. I have a strong feeling that he might have been infected with some kind of mental disease (even some kind of viral infection) or a new disease that could be related to mad cow disease. I hope that the media can inspire experts to work will the Colonel to prevent such things from happening in the future.

  • Guest

    Oh, I have to call this as what it is – crap.

    Most (not all, but most) rapists were sexually &/or physically and psychologically abused in their own childhood or adolescence. ODDS ARE he learned his sadistic behaviour through direct experience, repressed it for years, and eventually repeated it. As have many criminals throughout the ages.

    "Finally, there is an alarmingly high rate of sexual abuse by females in the backgrounds of rapists, sex offenders and sexually aggressive men – 59% (Petrovich and Templer, 1984), 66% (Groth, 1979) and 80% (Briere and Smiljanich, 1993)." http://dsp-psd.pwgsc.gc.ca/Collection/H72-21-143-… – (see page 30)

    Really, quit stoking the fear of every male with normal sexual conflicts.

    • Indiana_John

      … continued (this is 3 of 3)

      Guest, you wrote, "Really, quit stoking the fear of every male with normal sexual conflicts."

      To what fear are you referring? If it is fear of the possibility of the existence of forces in the psyche but outside the ego, the fear is not well founded. If such forces do not exist, what is there to fear?

      However, if they do exist, blind denial of them is the worst thing possible, for that very denial gives them unfettered autonomy and, with it, the power to turn demonic. Recognition, acknowledgment, and well-measured respect are what keeps their power within bounds.

      Jung did not fabricate these forces, They appeared spontaneously in his patients' dreams and visions. Furthermore, Jung was careful to evaluate and notice just how much a patient was ready to face at a given time.

      We should base a decision on brave observation of our own experience and the consideration of others' points of view, not on fear.

      • Guest

        "The evil comes from a source unknown to the naive. It comes from demonic power released by an opposing neglected complex anchored in a neglected and repressed function."

        Horse-swill.

        Anyone who has been on the receiving end of sadism and watched a sadist in action can tell you the pure, simple, unvarnished truth:
        1) that sadism could N-E-V-E-R be described as a "power released by an opposing neglected complex". Evil is a CHOICE – plain and simple. It is a purposeful identification with, and choice to emulate, abuse of power over another living being solely for one's own pleasure. Period.
        2) "evil comes from a source unknown to the naive" No, it does not. Acts of evil are INTENTIONAL acts done knowing full-well their impact on their victims, and done because the perpetrator has CHOSEN to emulate behaviour observed in &/or experienced from others.

        • Guest

          People who commit sadistic heinous acts are nothing like the average citizen (regardless of their own experience of sadistic victimization), and it is complete fearmongering to leave the average "man" with the mistaken impression that he or she, given the right circumstances and "psychic" forces, could commit the same evils.

          The experience of evil can push evil-inclined individuals more quickly into like-minded behaviour. Everyone else chooses to suffer rather than to "pay it forward".

  • Carolyn Moosie

    I guess the story is not real about Russel William 's life . I know the experienced to the compare of the soldiers and police what is the different types of investigation. i know that police do not understand soldier confession to court judge do not understand soldiers and psychiatrist or psychologist do not understand soldiers and police are different kind of the investigation. i can't explain to you about police and soldiers investigation . I Keep my private about govenment about soldiers and police

  • Carolyn Moosie

    I analyze what Russell William 's stories about 2 women , He is a boss of soldier and I agreed with him because I don' t accept that women do not allow to become soldiers .

    • LCol Seymour Idiots

      I would try to answer you but your english is so bad I can't figure out what you are saying.

  • Karenina

    He looks like a rapist and a killer. His eyes are so cold. No wonder he did what he did. And I don't believe his wife knew nothing. Boxes full of underwear in the basement for her to fall over and she didn't look inside? I always knew what my husband was up too. I could read his face like a book and he would not have past this by me without me noticing something strange. But it is a good excuse for her.
    I hope he suffers in jail. After all the honors in his life he will feel the punishment more then any other person in jail.
    I am glad.

  • Rae

    I'd like to read more about his Russell Williams' wife.

    Why has she not taken a public stand condemning her husband? Is she still visiting him at Kingston Penitentiary? Why is a divorce not forthcoming?

    Her silence to the victims is completely creepy.

    • LCol Seymour Idiots

      I totally agree. She's not all there either.

  • MaryGI

    So there is a lot of truth in the Jekyl and Hyde tale — but then I already knew that.

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