The lost art of curl maintenance

Curly hair went out of fashion for so long that the ability to cut it is practically a cult secret

by Rachel Mendleson on Monday, March 22, 2010 12:11pm - 19 Comments
The lost art of curl maintenance

Photographs by: Eduardo Munoz/Reuters (Left), Kevin Mazur/Wireimage/Getty (Middle), Jason Reed/Reuters (Right)

On a particularly frigid winter afternoon, the steady stream of women who enter the Curl Ambassadors salon in downtown Toronto are greeted by a self-affirming mantra. The slogan scrawled in hot pink across the stylists’ black T-shirts, “Happy Being Me,” which, in this case, refers to embracing one’s naturally curly hair, is also reflected in the decor: above the front desk, a pair of vintage portraits showcase little girls with auburn waves; in the waiting area, a binder filled with curly styles, plucked from the pages of hair magazines, sits open for perusal. All of which, says co-owner Caroline Muir, whose red ringlets fall just below her chin, is intended to give the clientele, many of whom have for years straightened their curls, the confidence to stop wrestling with nature. As Lorraine Massey, the Manhattan-based stylist whose DevaCurl line of products is used at the salon, told Maclean’s, “We’re not born loving our hair. We have to truly fight and learn to love it.”

In a world where long, straight and sleek has for decades been upheld as the ideal of beauty, those born with curly hair have been abandoned by the mainstream. Not since the dying days of disco has big, curly hair been truly en vogue, and, as a result, the ability to cut and style naturally curly tresses was lost on (and for) a generation. Curly-haired women of all ethnicities have either submitted to expensive and time-consuming straightening techniques or risked the alternative: an endless series of bad haircuts and many bad hair days. But if the Curl Ambassadors’ popularity is any indication—demand prompted Muir and business partner Betty Di Salvo to open a second salon last year—this is no longer the case. Buoyed by an emerging subculture of women, united in their curl-care triumphs and defeats, natural ringlets, spirals and waves are making a comeback.

Part of what has kept natural curls under wraps, says Jonathan Torch, who has been styling curly hair in Toronto since the ’80s, is the general perception of it. “You always see it as frizzy and damaged,” he says. “It has the illusion of messy.” In fact, Western civilization has a long history of derision toward hair that appears to have a mind of its own. According to Greek mythology, Medusa could turn to stone anyone who dared lay eyes on her head of writhing serpents. The nefarious, sensual power of curls is also evident in our retelling of the story of Adam and Eve. As Penny Howell Jolly, an art history professor at Skidmore College in Saratoga Springs, N.Y., observes in her essay “Dangerous Hair,” while Biblical accounts don’t discuss Eve’s hair, “artists frequently depict her with sinuous curls, alluding to the notion that Eve seduced Adam into sin.”

In certain industries, curly hair remains the object of scorn. Torch, who runs the Curly Hair Institute salon, says he has clients who work in TV, and “cannot wear their hair curly on air because they’re not taken seriously enough.”

Laura Atendido, 28, says she started fielding queries from classmates about her “fuzzy Afro” in Grade 2. “I didn’t like the questions about it, so I just tried to do whatever I could to bury it and kill it.” After more than two decades of maniacal flattening, using everything from baseball hats to the household iron (she refers to the burns she endured as “war wounds”), her resolve has only gotten stronger. Today, she adheres to a two-hour-long regimen, so arduous that she only wets her hair every third day. After using a round brush and blow-dryer on damp hair to stretch out and dry curls, she divides her hair into small sections. With a flatiron, she meticulously straightens each piece, before sealing the result with a shine spray, which also combats frizz. On off days, she monitors the weather obsessively. “Your life revolves around it,” she says.

Race can add yet another layer of complication. Charisse Jones, co-author of Shifting: The Double Lives of Black Women in America, explains that ever since black women first came to the U.S. as slaves in the 1600s, “we’ve been waging a kind of battle with our hair, covering it up with scarves and trying to figure out how to get it to mimic the hair of Europeans.” As a child, Jones recalls having her hair straightened with hot combs and oil heated on the kitchen stove, a memory she says “is quite literally seared into the minds and into the psyches of a lot of black women.”

Though the processes have become more sophisticated, they are no less consuming: in the U.S., black-hair care, everything from chemical relaxers to elaborate weaves, has grown into a billion dollar industry. As Bernard Bronner, president and CEO of Bronner Bros., Inc., points out in Chris Rock’s 2009 documentary Good Hair, “For certain products, we index triple what the white market does.” The Bronner Bros. International Hair Show, held twice annually in Atlanta, is attended by 120,000 hair professionals, pumping an estimated US$60 million into that city’s economy. As Rock puts it: “Good hair is good business.” During the civil rights movement of the 1960s, freeing one’s natural kinks became a symbol of subversion—the effects of which linger to this day. “If you wear locks, or your hair in a short Afro,” says Jones, “[people] might assume you’re militant or troublesome.”

The emerging cult of curl is a response to these negative perceptions—and the lack of understanding about how to cut and style naturally wild hair into a look that’s more Botticelli and less Medusa. Despite the fact that an estimated two-thirds of the population has some measure of wave, twist or kink to their hair, the vast majority of hairstylists still haven’t figured it out. “Our whole training is based on making it go away,” says Massey, who ironed out her thick auburn mane of curls until the ’80s. “It’s all about imposing upon it, making it change.”

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  • Wen

    Curl Ambassador rocks.

  • Addy

    http://www.ouidad.com/
    I am a certified Ouidad Stylist in MN, at Ovations Salon Spa! Curl Diva products are not even in the same universe as Ouidad products! I have natural curls and am happy to hear the movement is spreading. I feel honored to be a part of it. Ouidad is the master of curls. The best of the best for loving the locks again. One product does not fit all, however, the Ouidad condition, cut, and style (the prescribed products) is for all curly hair needs. Love to all curls.

    • mmj

      Tried Ouidad and DevaCurl products. Have to say I like the latter. More than that, I love Mixed Chicks leave-in conditioner. My curls are perfect with it.

      • megan

        I agree too – on both the DevaCurl and Mixed Chicks leave-in conditioner. I think we have the same hair care regime!

        • mmj

          Sisters of the curl, unite!

  • curlz

    Love everything about Curl Ambassadors, they take time with you and really make the effort to make sure you leave happy!

  • megan

    I had high hopes for Curl Ambassadors, but I left with a boring "Mom" haircut that made me look much older and far less hip that I actually am. I did get some good tips and product suggestions though, so it wasn't a total fail :)

    • mmj

      I had the same thing. The products are great. If you are downtown, and don't mind an eclectic stylist, I recommend trying out Randy Davis at PRIMP.

  • mimosa

    Curl Ambassadors isn't for everyone. It's only for those who are brave enough to be yourself, curls and all. If you're brave enough to stand up and be curly, then it's the place for you : )

    • stur

      It figures, one negative comment and someone immediately has to make statements about not being 'open' enough. Are you perhaps from CA? I've always worn my hair curly and I like it that way. I've been to the Curl Ambassadors twice and I walked away both times with hair cuts that were just okay. I think I'll try Chiggy's as recommended below, the website looks good and more like a sexy and fresh kind of salon.

  • Joanne Dafoe

    I received a gift certificate from my daughter for Christmas. I have curly hair and have straightened my bangs for at least….50yrs it seems. After having my hair cut there I have finally had a style that allowed me to wash and dry and leave it alone. Excellent hair tips and stylists. It was the best present ever. I just wish they were in my neck of the woods.. Thank you!

  • simplegearle

    i am so happy that i found curl ambassadors when i did almost 3 years ago now — and i third/fourth the notion — Mixed Chicks deep conditioner is awesome — and i only put shampoo in my hair every 4-5 days — mind you i wet it every day in the shower and put product in — i LOVE my curls now!

  • http://www.matthewbproman.com/ John Proman

    They look good on their cool hair. Great article. I noticed that Taylor's hair is curlier and not that fixed. But she looks good on it though.

  • http://www.geniemove.com/ Chicago movers

    Curl, really rocks the present generation.

  • kat

    When I move to a new place I always look for curly haired stylists for a cut. The second they try to cut after a straightening (which I only get done when I get a cut) I know I'm in the wrong place. I'm waiting for my current stylist to finish her maternity leave (it's worth the wait).
    AG's Fastfood (Leave-on conditioner) is fabulous for providing some control. I live in a dry climate so it works, I get out the big guns when I travel to humid places – I gave up when we lived in the rainforest for a year (perfumed things attracted bugs). Fastfood is great for avoiding an oily look, as well as keeping it healthy. It smells amazing too. No frizz here! :)

  • http://www.spartanmoving.com/ San jose movers

    Curl ambassador really rocks and I very much like the slogan "Happy Being Me,"

  • http://twitter.com/dionerobertson Dione Robertson

    The majority of chemicals that remove curl contain lye.  In all forms it can damage and kill cells on your head if it touchs your scalp.  Salon employees who are exposed to it daily can damage their lungs and develop asthma.  Has these products remained on the market because they harm mostly women?    

  • http://twitter.com/dionerobertson Dione Robertson

    The majority of chemicals that remove curl contain lye.  In all forms it can damage and kill cells on your head if it touchs your scalp.  Salon employees who are exposed to it daily can damage their lungs and develop asthma.  Has these products remained on the market because they harm mostly women?    

  • venus

    I would say the best salon for curly hair in Toronto is Chiggy's Touch – consistently incredible haircuts.

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