Defending Lilith Fair

Sarah McLachlan takes on critics of her (recently resurrected) festival

by Elio Iannacci on Monday, May 10, 2010 11:54am - 17 Comments

“I will definitely change the face of this concert and I’m glad to be a part of breaking some of its traditions,” says Mary J. Blige from New York. As one of the tour’s biggest headliners, the media-crowned Queen of Hip-Hop Soul is booked to play Lilith’s Montreal and Toronto dates. “I can’t wait to experiment on stage because that’s what I know a lot of singers do at Lilith. People can expect me to sing [Led Zeppelin’s] Whole Lotta Love and Stairway to Heaven and my hits, too. It’s going to be all-out Mary.”

Blige adds that Lilith’s stage is a place she’ll feel comfortable to express what she calls her “personal politics.” “Women need to be told that they are queens and princesses. It’s our job as leaders in the music industry to be teachers and tell women how they should be treated by men and by themselves. I truly believe that if we save the women, we save the world,” the 39-year-old singer explains. “Listen, if it weren’t for us, there’d be no life. We have wounds, we carry children for nine months, we go through cramps, we suffer through the worst pain that men can’t even imagine. That’s why this concert is so important—if you take away the classroom, nobody’s gonna learn.”

Philadelphia’s 38-year-old Jill Scott agrees with Blige. “When I see Sarah McLachlan sing and chat up Sheryl Crow backstage, of course my own art is going to grow,” says Scott. “Witnessing where all these women are in their varying levels of age, success and talent is knowledge. To see and hear who’s happy, who’s lonely, who has children and what’s missing in their lives is wisdom. Sisterhood is power.”

Belinda Carlisle of the Go-Go’s wishes Lilith could have happened years ago. “Who knows how much farther the Go-Go’s would have gone if Lilith Fair was around when we first started in the late ’70s?” the 51-year-old asks from her home in France. “Back then, it felt like we were the only girls on stage. A lot of the guys around us were a bunch of sexist, violent, drugged-out punks who threw things at us while we played. We could have developed our musicality a lot quicker if we were able to see how other women played. We were usually seen as competition by male groups—not comrades.”

The only thing that comes close to a competition at Lilith is the inclusion of a digital American Idol-esque contest called the Lilith Local Talent Search. For the month of May, local acts from around North America will be able to submit a sample of their best performances for a chance to be on tour with McLachlan and company. This feature isn’t the only newfangled addition to the Lilith legacy. Aside from the occasional Twitter update—which is not written by McLachlan (“I hate Twitter,” she laughs. “It’s banal and turned into a society pager for people with too much time on their hands”), the tour also has a campaign on their Facebook page that allows people to vote on a charity for Lilith to donate to. Recently ticket buyers discovered that a handful of anti-choice organizations were among the charitable options. As soon as the Lilith team was informed, various charities were dismissed from the running.

It isn’t the first time McLachlan has crossed paths with anti-choice groups. “I remember a bunch of pro-lifers came to a press conference at a past Lilith Fair stop and started giving me s–t about why I allowed Planned Parenthood tables and why they couldn’t get a table,” she recalls. “I just said: it’s my festival and I believe in pro-choice.”

As if all the other pressure wasn’t enough, McLachlan has also timed the relaunch of Lilith with her new CD release. Titled The Laws of Illusion (“the title is an oxymoron,” she says), the disc is slated for release on June 15 and is the first collection of freshly penned songs she’s recorded since 2003’s Afterglow. Although she split from husband and ex-drummer Ashwin Sood last year (the former couple share two daughters), she insists the recordings are not indicative of a divorce album.

“I know everybody is going to go, ‘oh that song is about your ex,’ but you know what? It’s not,” she says. Produced by long-time collaborator Pierre Marchand, Laws will address what she refers to as “coming to terms with loss and realizing everything that you thought was true is, in fact, an illusion. I’ve been through a s–t storm and so have some of my friends,” she laughs. “The songs do reflect that.” Dark themes aside, McLachlan swears that no matter what she goes through, she’ll always be a glass-half-full kind of woman. “I’m an eternal optimist with a small degree of cynicism,” she says. “I never want to lose either. One of my favourite lines is: if it doesn’t happen, the world will continue to spin.”

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  • http://intensedebate.com/profiles/sfbayarts sfbayarts

    Go Lilliith! There's nothing bad and everything good about promoting women artists. They have been and still are greatly overlooked… thanks, sarah!

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/DerekPearce DerekPearce

    Who the hell in the media got the idea that the shows were "sombre"? Not anybody who went to them.

  • John Doe

    How can they claim that women artist are overlooked ? Women in the music industry make all the money these days.Every one knows sex sells and they sell it well alright ! All the top paid artist are women, they get all press and promotion in the world. Hell, these days it's practicly illegal to critise them! Just a bunch of spoiled white girls who want to vent out there anger on men for what's happening to women in other countries

    • John D

      I criticized Celine Dion yesterday and somehow I avoided imprisonment!

  • Val

    I think that's a typo – "wombs" seems more appropriate for the context.

  • John D

    Why would you read an article about her festival in the first place then?

  • Robin O

    I am so thrilled that Sarah is back again. I was lucky enough to attend all three Lilith fairs and just by chance attended the first one where it was opened by Paula Cole and Fionna Apple. I am just a little dissapointed that the PNC art show is not as powerful as I hoped. Why are we getting Selena as oppsed to Sia or Sheryl Cowe or Queen Latifa. New York deserves a better line up

  • Nika

    These quotes from Mary J. Blige blow my mind. Fantastic story.

  • http://brittle-fracture-metals.katamizo.info Zimmerman

    Have you ever read a book that really changed the way you look at things? What was the book?

  • michelle

    I see Kesha and Rihanna in there. Funny how all the fems did all the bashing that men looked upon women as sex toys now we got two sex toys selling their asses. I thought it was about the MUSIC.mik

  • seagle

    Seriously people… why does anyone need to "defend" a music festival? There are gay pride parades, festivals for various cultural music, etc.. The line-up of women is going to be different from city to city depending on their availability and if you don't like what they have to offer, just don't buy a ticket. I don't know who it is hurting to hold this event! It raises loads of money for great charities to advance the position of women in the world. Anyone who denies that is a worthy cause is living in a cave (in Afghanistan… probably a member of the Taliban).

  • arnaud

    oh very nice

  • Charles

    This article made me really excited, since I had a lot of fun at the Lilith Fairs in 1998 and 1999. But then I looked at the lineups, which seem to feature none of the interesting artists mentioned in the article. Tegan and Sara, for instance, are playing only one show (Boston). Most of the acts are doing like two or three nights each. So instead of a truly amazing festival, you get Sarah McLachlan, one of the classic artists, maybe one decent newer artist, and some random other people. And I do mean random – Jill Hennessy of Law and Order fame seems to be playing a couple of shows.

  • Daya

    Love Lillith Fair! In a men run world we need each other to remind each other that we are strong, that we are powerful and that we can…what could possibly be wrong about women gathering like we always have for centuries to celebrate and share? …especially when there are so many talented awesome women out there eager to inspire…I say more power to Sarah for undertaking this massive endeavor.

  • Kia

    Interesting comment by the Prada person….God forbid women become so empowered we no longer need designer bags and shoes to accesorize our dissatisfaction with outward appearances! Feminism/Self-Love/Compassion will always have a place as long as comments such as those exist. Keep on doing your thing, Sarah….it's obvious this world has missed Lillith and i'm just so glad it's back.

  • cleargreen

    Funny… I always thought music was about the MUSIC… not about sexual choices or feminism… sexism is just racism that has substituted gender for race… music is about music, grind your axe in some other medium!

  • ajarn

    Music, especially live music can not exist without being a collaborative affair. Originally it was good spin to call this a women's show.It's not. The majority of the players participating on stage are men. Sarah,with all due respect you got lucky with the feminist card the first time, this time you should have come up something a little more enlightened…cheers.

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