Facebook update: I quit

Matthew Milan is quitting Facebook, and he’s taking thousands of people with him

by Kate Lunau on Thursday, June 3, 2010 12:40pm - 5 Comments

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On Monday, Toronto-based Web designer Matthew Milan is quitting Facebook, and he’s taking thousands of people with him. Fed up with the social networking site’s lax approach to privacy, Milan co-founded Quit Facebook Day, which early this week had over 15,000 people signed up. “Our data and interactions make up who we are online,” he says. “Facebook doesn’t treat online data the way you’d expect to be treated as a person.”

With about 500 million Facebook users worldwide, those deleted accounts may sound insignificant. Even so, the campaign is part of a growing backlash against the site, which—in a bid to make money by linking ads to personal data—has pushed users to make more information public. When users post comments, many don’t realize they’re not just sharing with friends. Since late last year, “the default is to everybody,” says Will Moffat, a programmer in San Francisco. “They didn’t make it clear that ‘everybody’ means every single person on the Internet.”

It’s one of a growing list of concerns. Privacy czars in Canada and abroad have complained about the site’s policies. Last week, under pressure, Facebook agreed to stop sending potentially private data to advertisers, and reports suggested even company insiders were rebelling. According to Google, the search term “delete Facebook account” doubled in Canada from April to May. (Facebook declined to be interviewed.)

Other websites are stepping in to fill the void: MySpace is changing its default setting for updates to “friends only.” A new site called ReclaimPrivacy.org lets users scan their Facebook settings to reveal what they’re sharing online, and YourOpenBook.org, co-created by Moffat, is a wellspring of embarrassing status updates. As Moffat says, it’s “jaw-dropping” what people make public, often without realizing it.

This crisis has done big damage to Facebook, but will it be lasting? Now that millions of people are hooked, turning your back on the site means leaving hundreds of “friends” behind. For Milan, it’s a worthwhile trade. “If I’m not friends with them in real life,” he says, “why would I be on Facebook?”

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  • http://intensedebate.com/profiles/jahartmu j.hart

    I love competition, but the advantage Facebook has in terms of existing users will be difficult for any rival to compete with in the near term (which I'd define here as "the next few years"). Because of the negative press generated by Facebook's assorted recent privacy screw-ups, Facebook seems to finally be taking privacy more seriously.

    Annoying as the default privacy settings are, so long as Facebook makes it possible – and not ridiculously confusing – to lock down your account I have trouble feeling bad for people who publish idiotic things online. Some stuff has no place on the web, regardless of a user's expectation of automatic privacy. That said, I look forward to the innovations competitors offer and would have no problem dropping Facebook myself if enough of my friends did the same!

  • j.hart

    Users of Facebook are all stupid. In today's society, one must assume that all data you post is visible and you must explicity ensure it isn't, or that you have the option to mask/hide it.

    I've never joined Facebook and I will continue to just watch all those peons head for the hills when they finally realize their inital mistake of joining in the first place.

    • Lila

      Hear, hear!

  • Village

    I quit Facebook, and they sold me out to the spammers. I immediately started getting up to 20 spams a day, when I had been getting one a week, maybe, that wasn't caught by my filter. I don't think it's a coincidence.

    • S. Keeling

      Yes, it likely was coincidence. I noticed a big up-tick recently in spam. I assume a botnet sucked in another sucker.

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