It's my 'Dragon's Den' party, I'll cry if I want to

Contestants host viewing parties to reveal their fate—good or bad

by Rebecca Eckler on Tuesday, March 22, 2011 8:19am - 6 Comments
It’s my party, I’ll cry if I want to

Photograph by Cole Garside

On a recent cold and snowy Wednesday evening, 70 of Laura Berg’s closest friends and family gathered at a pub in Toronto to watch her appearance on the hit CBC show Dragons’ Den. Berg, founder of a company that teaches parents how to communicate with their babies using sign language, had gone on the reality show seeking financial backing for her business from the five “dragons”—Canadian multi-millionaires—way back in May. But for months, she had had to keep the results secret. Entrepreneurs who appear on the show “have to sign a contract: if they tell, we come and kill them,” joked a CBC media relations employee.

Like Berg, more and more contestants are opting for the big reveal: they host parties to celebrate their 15 minutes (or less) of fame, where their family and friends watch the show en masse to discover whether they landed a deal with the dragons. Or not, which—as the two million loyal viewers of the show know—is more commonly the case.

Hosting your own Dragons’ Den viewing party requires a degree of courage. First, contestants have no idea how long they will be on air. Though the pitches average 40 minutes, they are edited for TV to between 30 seconds and seven minutes. Pitchers also have no idea what the “dragons” said about them when they left the room (hint: it’s not always flattering). Even entrepreneurs who secured a deal have no idea how they will come off on television, which is not known as a forgiving medium.

Consequently, there’s an unmistakable frisson of tension at most viewing parties, and Berg’s was no exception. Her friends were nervous she might have bombed. “God, I really hope we’re going to get to party after this,” said one. When the show started at 8 p.m., the room fell silent. Berg huddled close to her husband near the giant TV, clutching a glass of wine, while everyone watched her pitch. After about six minutes, huge applause: the “dragons” had decided to invest in her company! Hooting and hugs all around.

As well as some surprise. “I’m shocked at how well she spoke,” one guest confided. “She’s very shy and quiet, so to see her speaking so eloquently on TV was amazing.”

Also surprising, to everyone including Berg: Brett Wilson, one of the show’s wealthy “dragons” (who has since left the show), turned up at her bash. Guests were floored, but Wilson said he’d been to “at least four or five” viewing parties. “I learn about them from local media. If I’m in the same city, I try to show up.”

Okay, but was he ever at a party hosted by an entrepreneur who did not get a deal? (One has to wonder if contestants would gather their nearest and dearest to watch them fail on national television.) “Yes,” Wilson said. “Even if you don’t get a deal, you get amazing exposure on the show. So people have parties and that brings them even more exposure.”

It’s my party, I’ll cry if I want to

Photographs by Cole Garside

Barb Stegemann of Halifax hosted a viewing party for her friends in early February. The founder of the fragrance company 7 Virtues says, “I started my business in my garage with a Visa card.” For her, the party was more of a shout-out for friends and family than an exercise in self-celebration. “They have put up with me,” she explains. “They all believed in me from the start. I’m so honoured to have these kinds of friends, so this party was to thank them.”

Stegemann had had a hard time keeping her fate on the show a secret. “I was busting at the seams,” she groans. “I love telling people everything and for me to not be able to tell something that could be the biggest life-altering experience in my life—it was killing me!” Fortunately, her friends, unlike Berg’s, didn’t attempt to pry the truth out of her. “They told me not to tell them what had happened because they couldn’t be trusted,” she laughs.

For her, the most nerve-wracking aspect of her viewing party was watching herself on television. She knew she’d cried during filming. And she knew she was going to cry again when she watched the episode with her friends. Tears of joy, this time: Brett Wilson had cut her a deal.

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  • http://www.snappysocks.ca Corla Rokochy

    Great Job Laura and Barb! We also celebrated our deal with Brett Wilson by throwing a big party! It was so amazing.
    http://www.thecircushouse.com/2011/02/aftermath.h…
    [youtube 3KXryEeZPQk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3KXryEeZPQk youtube]

    • Leo

      Thanks for posting the clip, and congratulations!!! Awesome marketing!! :-)

  • Patchouli

    I have a feeling that those who did not get a deal likely don't have parties. I challenge you to find one. If you cannot, then the whole premise of your article is foolish. If you can, then I bet those are dude parties!

    • Healthcare Insider

      Patchouli – I think you might be incorrect. Dragon's Den sometimes shows people who did not get a deal but were contacted by other interested parties – ie. Walmart after the broadcast and have gone on to be very successful with their product. Some of these people have great ideas and great products. The Dragons don't always recognize them. If you have confidence in yourself and your product, I can imagine having a party and I don't think Brett Wilson would lie and say he has attended a party of someone who was turned down if he did not.

  • http://www.snappysocks.ca Corla Rokochy

    I will take your challenge!

    A couple of funny fellows taped their segment the same day we did. They didn’t get a deal but great exposure and handled themselves well. http://2011pics.wordpress.com/2011/03/11/11-march/

    They celebrated at a pub and looks like the party is as fun as their product.

  • http://www.kathymm.com AgentHomes

    I love the Dragons Den! There are lots of reasons people don't get a deal done. It seemed a few people came on the Den this year just to get the TV exposure, I'm sure they'd be having a big party.

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